Swimie Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Is there any one question I can ask (that is subtle) to figure it out? I figure the ol, "...Oh, your female friend....is just a friend, right?" will be too obvious ..
blackorchid Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 This is tough. I have been that platonic female friend many times and it sucks for both girls. I don't know what her intentions are but mine were purely friendship. I met this dude who was cool and he, his buddy, and I hung out all the time. I knew he had a girlfriend but I didn't meet her first I met him first, which made things weird. I just wanted to scream "I'm not into your man" at times but I couldn't. I think there was just that much trust between them that she wasn't wondering. But who knows if it she saw me as a threat. And she and I never became as close as he and I did, unfortunately. I think you just need to know whether or not you can trust your boyfriend, her.
Citizen Erased Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Girls tend to be pretty bitchy when they're jealous. If she starts being rude to you or saying things behind your back, then yeah I think you know. I trust my fiance to not keep someone that clearly has a crush on him around as a friend. They're not really a friend then now are they, he has better judgment than that. I hope you can say the same about your bf. You should never be put in the position to have to "fight" over someone that is committed to you. If you are then let him go I say, he's not yours to begin with.
Will59 Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Is there any one question I can ask (that is subtle) to figure it out? I figure the ol, "...Oh, your female friend....is just a friend, right?" will be too obvious .. Just look in your heart, you will KNOW, trust me.
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