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Is male self esteem/confidence really defined by "size"?


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I've always been well hung but I had low self esteem until I started losing serious amounts of weight, so I'm going to say no haha :D

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I've always been well hung but I had low self esteem until I started losing serious amounts of weight, so I'm going to say no haha :D

 

 

I'm a grower, but I'm definitely above average... and I honestly have 0 self esteem... and I'm in great shape.

 

go figure. :o

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I'm a grower, but I'm definitely above average... and I honestly have 0 self esteem... and I'm in great shape.

 

go figure. :o

 

well hung, great shape, 0 self esteem? does not compute.

 

EXPLAIN YOURSELF

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well hung, great shape, 0 self esteem? does not compute.

 

EXPLAIN YOURSELF

 

 

Do a search on my posts that include the name Nicole. That'll be why.

 

before that girl... oh man. I was someone different.

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Do a search on my posts that include the name Nicole. That'll be why.

 

before that girl... oh man. I was someone different.

 

Did you used to have another name here?

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If you're under-endowed I might think it would cause issues with self esteem. But if you're normal or above I don't think most men think about it.

 

I'm on the upper end of average and rarely ever think about penis size. It doesn't help my confidence with handling women whatsoever though. I've just had to learn through life to not give a **** how dealings with women turn out.

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I have nothing to worry about in that department. :D :D :D:lmao: :lmao:

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All the gents saying they don't have to worry and things of that nature are hereby now required to provide photographic evidence before making such claims

 

:love::love::love:

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All the gents saying they don't have to worry and things of that nature are hereby now required to provide photographic evidence before making such claims

 

:love::love::love:

 

I'm not posting it on LS, I'll get banned (again) ... e-mail?

 

Did you used to have another name here?

 

Bananaboat11

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All the gents saying they don't have to worry and things of that nature are hereby now required to provide photographic evidence before making such claims

 

:love::love::love:

 

 

Prepare to be amazed. :laugh:

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All the gents saying they don't have to worry and things of that nature are hereby now required to provide photographic evidence before making such claims

 

:love::love::love:

 

Ha! Your screen isn't big enough and LS won't allow JPGs over a certain size anyway.

:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::eek:

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Prepare to be amazed. :laugh:

 

Ha! Your screen isn't big enough and LS won't allow JPGs over a certain size anyway.

:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::eek:

 

:o:o:o:o

:love::love::love::love:

 

Yum.

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:o:o:o:o

:love::love::love::love:

 

Yum.

 

Freudian typo I reckon......:o

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Ha! Your screen isn't big enough and LS won't allow JPGs over a certain size anyway.

:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::eek:

 

 

What this guy said. :D :D :D

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It's funny how every guy out there has a 7+" penis... yet all these studies conducted by trained professionals (condom company's etc...) the average penis.. ie > 86% of the male population in the US wields a 5.5"-6" x 4.5"-5"

 

...and no I'm not trolling. Mods, please don't ban my ass. I'm just stating an empirical, epidemiological fact.

 

love you mods :D:love:

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It's funny how every guy out there has a 7+" penis... yet all these studies conducted by trained professionals (condom company's etc...) the average penis.. ie > 86% of the male population in the US wields a 5.5"-6" x 4.5"-5"

 

...and no I'm not trolling. Mods, please don't ban my ass. I'm just stating an empirical, epidemiological fact.

 

love you mods :D:love:

 

That's not a fact, its a statistic, and statistics are just basically guesses. I hope those "trained professionals" didn't take a look at 20 men and their penises to come up with those statistics.

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It's funny how every guy out there has a 7+" penis...

 

I sure as sh*t hope not! I, uh, "experienced" one that big with an ex, and I was always intimidated by it and didn't find it to be the most pleasant experience. :o

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Bananaboat11

 

Ah ha! It all makes sense now...

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Ah ha! It all makes sense now...

 

Hi sweetie :love:

 

I sure as sh*t hope not! I, uh, "experienced" one that big with an ex, and I was always intimidated by it and didn't find it to be the most pleasant experience. :o

 

:(

 

That's not a fact, its a statistic, and statistics are just basically guesses. I hope those "trained professionals" didn't take a look at 20 men and their penises to come up with those statistics.

 

 

Usually empirical, epidemiological evidence suggests that there is truth to the variable of interest.. in this particular case, penis size (length vs. girth).

 

Most of these studies consist of 100-500 individuals of varying races, heights, weights, etc...

 

look them up for yourself.

 

I'm sure you have a 7" penis too, huh? :rolleyes:

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In that article I found the comment '"It's opened doors for him' as a bit bizarre. To me having a big dick could help the women to appreciate you more, but I don’t see it as the key to success for meeting women or even a better class of women, not unless you wear tight fitting pants. I don’t know, maybe if I had a big dick I would think different, but I find it hard to imagine having your life fall down around you but still having a big grin on your dial for the rest of the day simply from taking a look at your dick each morning.

 

I laugh when I've seen these ads promoting enlarging pills which have an accompanying picture of some shoe gazing guy at a club on his own with all these hot chicks standing nearby laughing, with a caption like 'is a below average penis stopping women from finding you attractive'. I really like to think these ads don't work.

 

What comes to mind after reading that article are a couple of comments made by less well endowed guys in this regard. One was from a body builder who was being given sh*t over taking roids and its effect on shrinking the size of his package. He said it didn’t faze him. When he walks in a room women notice the size of his muscles not his crotch. Being 20% bigger didn’t boost his prospects any before getting on the juice.

 

The other from the comedian Doug Stanhope, who admits to having a small dick. He said women don’t realize he is not well endowed or a lousy lover until its too late by then he is already naked and on top of her and has already cum. Chances are his personality and her sobering up was not going to get him a 2nd date so its effect on his sex life is not that big a deal.

 

As a thin build guy, having a 9" dick wouldn't have helped me pull women any better in club. If I was below average in size then I would definitely be self conscious of it, unless I was able to offset it by being a very masculine guy.

I have the impression that part of the attraction for big guys with women is they think, bigger guy = bigger dick. I'd like to hear comments from the women on LS in this regard. I know a couple of women have been pleasantly surprised with me, as if they expected a skinny dick.

 

And as for any well endowed guys here on LS, have you ever promoted the fact to a woman to help to win her over...and it worked more than it failed!

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I think 7 inches is quite good for us guys. (no homo).

 

Besides, those with that much length should be happy.

 

Some of us need a wagon for theirs. :(

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Hi sweetie :love:

 

Hi hi!!

 

You seem to be in a better place under this handle... true?

 

:(

 

Oh, don't pout! Many (most?) girls will love it! I just prefer "average" - it fits everywhere better. :)

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Hi hi!!

 

You seem to be in a better place under this handle... true?

 

 

 

Oh, don't pout! Many (most?) girls will love it! I just prefer "average" - it fits everywhere better. :)

 

 

I prefer you... and if you don't prefer me.. that's just not kosher! :lmao:

 

And yes, I am in a better place.. but it isn't the alias that is putting me there. :)

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I prefer you... and if you don't prefer me.. that's just not kosher! :lmao:

 

Sorrrryyyyyy!!! :laugh: It's nothing personal... :cool:

 

And yes, I am in a better place.. but it isn't the alias that is putting me there. :)

 

Well that's good to hear! :bunny:

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