NeoGen85 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I know that size doesn't matter, and every woman knows what she likes. My girlfriend calls me "gifted" because of the size of my penis; I am rather on the larger side. But I don't feel gifted and I'm starting to have some negativity towards it which is absolutely insane. The other night my girlfriend and I decided to take our relationship to a new level. With that said I'm her first, and I'm no expert as well. We spent 3 hours trying to get started! I knew that she would be tight and I tried several times to loosen things up. At first I spent time orally pleasing her which she definitely enjoyed, and I used my fingers as well. We even used KY lubrication. It became more work then actual play. Thank goodness we have a sense of humor, and we're so comfortable with each other. Still, it ended in a night of defeat. By the time I was in side of her(and not fully erected) we both just wanted to sleep. And as I guy, I just feel horrible that I couldn't hold it. Has anyone ran into this problem before? If I was just a little bit smaller it would have been less work. But I love her so much and feel bad that our romantic night turned into chaos.
Rorschach Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 This is sorta the wrong forum but I'll answer it anyway. This is so incredibly common. If you're nervous about having sex (and it sounds like you are, like it or not) you're going to have alot of difficulties, for guys this means you will have a hard time staying hard (rimshot), girls will have a hard time loosening up enough to allow sex to happen. If you can't get it in she might just be too nervous, if you have problems maintaining a strong erection that you are probably just too nervous. Either way it's nothing to worry about at all, it's happened to me and probably many people on this forum, it's very common and nothing to worry about. Go have fun and don't worry about how far you can go, just enjoy yourself.
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