Raderick Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 Another day, another crazy that forced a kiss on me, and wanted to **** me after meeting two hours earlier (friend of a friend). She's not attracted at all, and kept on talking, and talking, and talking. Needless to say, I don't plan on seeing her again, even after we had set a date for Friday night.
Author Raderick Posted September 3, 2010 Author Posted September 3, 2010 Blind date? No, I talked to her in brief earlier in the week on facebook. She came over unannounced right as friends were leaving my apartment from a night of poker. How she found out my address, I have no idea.
atlnay Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 If you have no plans to see her again, why set the Friday date?
Author Raderick Posted September 3, 2010 Author Posted September 3, 2010 If you have no plans to see her again, why set the Friday date? Was made before Thursday night.
EasyHeart Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 This thread made me laugh because just a few days ago, a friend asked me what I was looking for in a woman, and I said: 1. Single, 2. Female, 3. Not insane. I'm convinced that no such woman exists.
Leigh 87 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 hey * puts hand up*. I am 23, wavy blond hair, blue eyes,t, DD boobs, slim, smart, kind, and have been socially isolated due to an eating disorder. Nothing wrong with me, but I moved to a new town, have no friends here, and ahve not had a sexual relationship for 4 years due to my disorder. So know that there R attractive, worth while, single girls out tyhere like me, who are dying to meat smart, nice, decent men and r very sexually frustrated. Not all the girls that r left r crazy, ugly, or unappealing. There is hope!
naya1 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 maybe u are kinda misleading them.. just cant see the logic behind beautiful women throwing themselves at u and u trying to hold them back..
Leigh 87 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 ru talking to ME? Well, I actually do not approach guys. I was over weight for my frame, and then became anorexic, so I have not hd much middle ground. Just a split second between the two periods, where I was hot. Now I am back to having a better than average body ( 5 ' 5 - 5 ' 6, 119 - 120 lbs, small frame and wrists with flat stomach, but large DD cup breasts, femanine hips. I have blond hair and blue eyes). but how the hell I ever have a sex life? I mean, I do not do one night stands, even after bloody 4 yrs of no sex. And I am a very sexual person. I want it badly. So, unless I go and bloody go to a pub and pick a desperate guy up, HOW, just HOW does a shy girl like me, who has moved to a new town, supposed to get a guy? NOT a boyfriend. JUST a guy who likes and respects me, and can like me as a friend, who also ****s me occasionally. I am not a model, but there r WAY uglier, fatter, less smart, and nastier girls out there who have friends, a social life, and a SEX life. My point; I am sure there r loads of decent women out there who r up for some sort of fun, who r NOT crazy women. BY the way - r these crazy women hot? hmm what a waste of body if they R crazy.
naya1 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 (edited) no leigh im talking to the original poster, i just dont see how one woman can go instantly insane in one date if no buttons were pushed anyway u dont need to really find a man now, the more u look the more u wont find the nice ones. u might meet them at school or work. or a friend's friend. the more u meet a lot of people, the bigger ur chances are of ..meeting a good one. i met my bf online hehe. Edited September 3, 2010 by naya1
Author Raderick Posted September 3, 2010 Author Posted September 3, 2010 no leigh im talking to the original poster, i just dont see how one woman can go instantly insane in one date if no buttons were pushed anyway u dont need to really find a man now, the more u look the more u wont find the nice ones. u might meet them at school or work. or a friend's friend. the more u meet a lot of people, the bigger ur chances are of ..meeting a good one. i met my bf online hehe. The funny thing is I don't even know what I'm doing to get all of these crazies! Yeah I make it seem like I'm interested to talk to them and will listen to them prevent a boring date for me and the other person, but I don't try to flirt my way into a kiss or into another gal's pants if I know that I have zero interest physically or romantically.
bobdole Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 1. Single, 2. Female, 3. Not insane. I just incorporated this into my OLD "perfect math" section hope ya don't mind
atlnay Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 Was made before Thursday night.[/QUoute] um, cancel the date. Make an excuse if you have to but if you have zero interest in anything with this chick, be a grown man and kindly bow out. Going out with her again and not being a pleasant date is rude & if u pretend to have fun you will be leading her on. But you will go out and then come back here to complain about the poor chick. Save both of you alls time, point your energy elsewhere and give her the same option.
Author Raderick Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Was made before Thursday night.[/QUoute] um, cancel the date. Make an excuse if you have to but if you have zero interest in anything with this chick, be a grown man and kindly bow out. Going out with her again and not being a pleasant date is rude & if u pretend to have fun you will be leading her on. But you will go out and then come back here to complain about the poor chick. Save both of you alls time, point your energy elsewhere and give her the same option. I already canceled the date this morning, already moved on from this gal.
Hopeful30 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I hear ya. I attract all the psychos...it's really annoying.
jamesum Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 but how the hell I ever have a sex life? I mean, I do not do one night stands, even after bloody 4 yrs of no sex. And I am a very sexual person. I want it badly. So, unless I go and bloody go to a pub and pick a desperate guy up, HOW, just HOW does a shy girl like me, who has moved to a new town, supposed to get a guy? NOT a boyfriend. JUST a guy who likes and respects me, and can like me as a friend, who also ****s me occasionally. I am not a model, but there r WAY uglier, fatter, less smart, and nastier girls out there who have friends, a social life, and a SEX life. My point; I am sure there r loads of decent women out there who r up for some sort of fun, who r NOT crazy women. BY the way - r these crazy women hot? hmm what a waste of body if they R crazy. Honestly, you sound so sexually frustrated. You are probably going to confuse lust for love all the time until you get that out of your system. I say find yourself a F-buddy to release all that 4-year worth of pent up sexual anger before considering to look for a serious boyfriend.
Leigh 87 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I do not want a f- buddy. I need a connection to me intimate with some one. But I am not the type to make something with some one for the sake of it. WHIch means I am resigned to the fact that it will take a while to find the right person for me. Although I am not looking for a LONG term relationship, I just want A relationship, not necessarily one that will last for ever. Furthermore, I want to preserve myself down there, and a f buddy will make things worse. I dunno what guys define as crazy there days, back the OP. SOME guys r so stupid that they assume that if a girl makes the first move and texts him, that she is crazy and desperate. Loosers. I find it odd that women CAN be that crazy.. I mean, grabbing your face and kissing it, when they do not even kno if U WANT to do it? WTf is wrong with them? Perhaps they read things wrongly. They must think u WANT them to grab your face and kiss it. Maybe these " crazy" women just misread things, and do not know how to act appropriately. Not crazy intend, just poor in these social cirsumstaces.
Author Raderick Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 I dunno what guys define as crazy there days, back the OP. SOME guys r so stupid that they assume that if a girl makes the first move and texts him, that she is crazy and desperate. Loosers. I find it odd that women CAN be that crazy.. I mean, grabbing your face and kissing it, when they do not even kno if U WANT to do it? WTf is wrong with them? Perhaps they read things wrongly. They must think u WANT them to grab your face and kiss it. Maybe these " crazy" women just misread things, and do not know how to act appropriately. Not crazy intend, just poor in these social cirsumstaces. Even though part-way through the last few dates I ended up having to reject, I try to give them a good time as well as I try to give myself a good time. They spent a considerable amount of time with me when they could be doing something else as is the same with me, might as well make the best out of the situation. Maybe I'm going the wrong route with this and should make every attempt to end the date ASAP. In these situations, I don't make any romantic hints or attempt to flirt, and I laugh off all flirting attempts made and either switch the subject or ignore it altogether.
jamesum Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Furthermore, I want to preserve myself down there, and a f buddy will make things worse. U mean u r a virgin ....? I dunno what guys define as crazy there days, back the OP. SOME guys r so stupid that they assume that if a girl makes the first move and texts him, that she is crazy and desperate. Loosers. I find it odd that women CAN be that crazy.. I mean, grabbing your face and kissing it, when they do not even kno if U WANT to do it? WTf is wrong with them? Did you ever kiss anyone before? You dont go ahead and kiss someone especially the first kiss out of nowhere. There is such a thing as 'the right moment'. Women should know this better than men anyway.
luvtoto Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 No, I talked to her in brief earlier in the week on facebook. She came over unannounced right as friends were leaving my apartment from a night of poker. How she found out my address, I have no idea. Holy hell. That is scary!! She has no boundaries.
dispatch3d Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 I take it your new profile is working but mostly with the super desperate? Not so good news :/.
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