crimsonmike Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 Every time I meet someone I have an interest in they end up not being interested. However, if I meet someone I have no interest in, they will be in love within 3 dates (exageration.) Looks like the law of averages would be on my side, but no. At this point it would just be nice to go out and both of us not be interested.
L3stat Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 i had the same problems its just statistics eventually you will find someone, just dont lose hope keep looking, every no brings you closer to a yes:D
Left in a Lurch Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Story of my life too. But about a month ago I finally met someone I really liked and she told me she completely fell for me and from that exact point on has completely blown me off. She keeps the contact going saying things that indicate she is "in love" with me but has every excuse not to see me. I met another girl at the same time I was mildly interested in and she wants to see me every chance she gets. I figure screw it, hang out with the ones you are not that interested in. At least they try to make you happy instead of making you feel miserable all the time knowing if you call them on their bs they'll just turn it around on you.
DazednConfused Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Yeah Mike; I've been there on more than one occasion... it can be frustrating as hell as you have to continually extricate yourself from usually very nice girls that you just don't see being with in the long term, while the women you want long-term shut you down or simply fade. All you can do is decide you are only going to even start w/ those you are attracted to. I used to try to give every woman I met a chance... and met several that I liked on a mental level, hung out, had fun, tried to find the physical attraction and just couldn't. Having learned that lesson, I was far less disappointed when some women took a pass on me. Then, a few short weeks ago... she walked into my life. Nothing like matching up on all levels. Just keep getting out there. -Dazed
PhillyDude Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 This thread sums up why I like FOOTBALL more than woman
angelj Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Happens all the time. Meet guys daily but none are keepers. Met one that I thought was an excellent match, he agreed but after coming on strong, he started flaking. Idk if it's bc he wasn't into having a relationship or having a relationship with ME. Still contacts me here and there too... I feel your pain. Hopefully, we meet "the one" and realize it when we do!
Rxwoman Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 Are you a guy or gal? I think guys often prefer women who play a little hard to get. It's a chase thing, plus men are fickle. They always want what they think they can't have. Therefore if you are not interested, it make them want you all the more.
Mad Max Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 I think guys often prefer women who play a little hard to get. Absolutely not. Couldn't be more of a turn off. It's a chase thing, plus men are fickle. Women are just as fickle, if not more so. They always want what they think they can't have. Therefore if you are not interested, it make them want you all the more. That's a human thing and extremely sexist and naive to think it only applies to men.
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