NeoGen85 Posted September 2, 2010 Posted September 2, 2010 My girlfriend who I've been dating has decided she wants to enter a physical relationship with me. I think this is quite exciting but at the same time I'm not entirely sure what to expect. I never tried to put any pressure on her, so the idea of sex has been very vague. She has been holding on to her virginity in hopes of loosing it to someone she loves. That's something she never had to tell me(and she didn't). Our conversations about sex have almost been none-existent too. We've had several romantic situations where things could have went beyond simple kissing but she would never allow it to fly. In our relationship I've always had to initiate everything. From planning time to even simple things like holding hands. All that changed yesterday. Our schedules kind of clash so we need to plan time together accordingly. Like I said, I'm the one in charge of planning 99% of the time(which is something we've talked about). So I put her on the spot earlier in the week and said, "what do you have in store for me this weekend"? She had no real answer but it was okay. I went out to watch a baseball game with some friends, and I invited her. But she needed time to do her homework. We have gotten use to not seeing each other all the time throughout the week so it was no biggie. But before I left the game at the end of the night, I received a explicit text from her regarding my #$@% wanting to be inside her. That threw me off and I replied asking if this was my girlfriend I was texting. Stupid, huh? She pretty much told me a location, time, and date. I had to laugh simply because she's never been this assertive in the year that I've know her. Even though I'm ready to get at it(you have no idea), I have a feeling that I won't be prepared...
Confusedalways Posted September 2, 2010 Posted September 2, 2010 Ah, it'll be fun, scary, exciting and nerve wracking, but you'll enjoy yourself. Good luck!
L3stat Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 i wouldnt get your hopes up, i never been the type to plan sex...i go out with someone with the intent to have sex with them but it was never plan. dont be suprise if she loses her nerve and backs out.. but if she doesnt and just wear a condom and be gentle, and remember the bigger the boobs the more buckles on the bra:laugh:
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