SandyFall Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I've been dating a guy for a couple of weeks now. We've gone on 2 dates and we'll be going on our 3rd in a couple of days. He's really nice to me, we have a lot in common, he's not the most attractive guy in the world but good enough for me, and he makes me comfortable to be myself. So what's the problem? He likes to kiss me...a lot. Not when we are in public and he does respect my boundaries. The only thing we've done is kissed, nothing else physical. On the previous date, I got worried that he might want to take it to the next step so I decided to throw it out there that I wasn't ready to do anything else. He was okay with this. Unfortunately my past relationships were dysfunctional so I can't use them as a guideline. Also, my last boyfriend started off long distance so by the time we had our first date, we had been talking for 2 months. Making out on the first date seemed okay then. With the boyfriend before him, we only dated for a couple of months and kissed only once. As you can see, my kissing experience is weird. I guess I'm just not used to someone wanting to kiss me on the first date after not knowing me that long. I don't know, should I feel scared?
cottoncandy1 Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I would tell him you want to take it slow and be friends first. If you're not totally into him, take it slow. Is there a race? No. So slow down and get to know each other on the friend level first. It might blossom into a real romance. Looks fade, so don't count on them for too long. People who are good and have a nice personality actually will look more attractive to you in the long run. So be patient, and take my advice.
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