alexlakeman Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Friday she cancelled, and I've been busy since then... yesterday I get a text that she misses me and wants to spend time together.. I have not led her on in any way, shape, or form... maybe she's just pms'ing... but even a few weeks ago, she said we were fwb... how the heck can she start getting feelings like that of missing me? She doesn't have a bf nor do I have a gf
wishing4thefuture Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Friday she cancelled, and I've been busy since then... yesterday I get a text that she misses me and wants to spend time together.. I have not led her on in any way, shape, or form... maybe she's just pms'ing... but even a few weeks ago, she said we were fwb... how the heck can she start getting feelings like that of missing me? She doesn't have a bf nor do I have a gf I kind of hope she freaks out and punches you in the dick dude! She has feelings, of course she has feelings. You are in a relationship with this person. Call it whatever you want! Maybe your just PMSing dude!
carhill Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 (edited) One can 'miss' a FWB and 'want to spend time' with them. She's missing the sex and the time you spend doing it. Don't be confused Now, if she starts wanting to meet your mother and is showing care and concern about the minutiae of your life, then you're in trouble Oh, also, for some women, using you as an emotional receptacle is essentially the same as you using them for a sperm receptacle. They can dump their emotions into you and not care about you, just that they get to 'dump'. That's also a component of FWB for some people, though pure sex is much more common. Edited August 31, 2010 by carhill
FL Lady Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 One can 'miss' a FWB and 'want to spend time' with them. She's missing the sex and the time you spend doing it. Don't be confused Now, if she starts wanting to meet your mother and is showing care and concern about the minutiae of your life, then you're in trouble Oh, also, for some women, using you as an emotional receptacle is essentially the same as you using them for a sperm receptacle. They can dump their emotions into you and not care about you, just that they get to 'dump'. That's also a component of FWB for some people, though pure sex is much more common. I agree 100%. A FWB is still a friend.
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