Cee Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 I feel really stupid for asking this question & feel free to give me sh*t for being so indecisive. Met a guy last week (Tuesday) and then hung out on Thursday. Things got cozy with us (dancing and a little bit of kissing). At the end of the night, he asked me on a date for Monday. And then while I was on my way home he texted saying, he was looking forward to Monday. That seemed pretty good. Well, it's Sunday night and he hasn't contacted me. I don't remember how we left things. I assumed he'd call/text. Should I contact him? Or give him until tomorrow (the day of the proposed date) to contact me?
USMCHokie Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Do you know the where and when for this date? Normally I would send a quick confirmation text or phone call the night before, but perhaps he doesn't do that...if you know the time and place, then assume that the date is still on...if he doesn't show up or "forgets" your date, then toss him to the curb and find someone who actually has his sh*t together...this early on in the dating game, and especially since he asked you on the date, he should be making all the little moves and making sure things go to plan...not you...
atlnay Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Hmmm...if I liked him well enough, I'd contact him w/a light heartd txt saying I need notice to get girlie etc so where & when are we meeting. At some point during the date/or while making plans for another outing, I'd let him know as a general rule I need notice without being too rigid. If it is important for you to have more notice you need to set those boundaries now.
jamesum Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Why do adult women keep asking about children stuff like this? Just because you give him ONE text inquiring about the date in the next day, doesnt make you a desperate cheap whore. Lack of assertiveness is instead what makes a lot of women lose respect in the eyes of men.
Author Cee Posted August 30, 2010 Author Posted August 30, 2010 Thanks for the advice. I texted asking if we were on for Monday. He responded an hour later saying he couldn't make it and sorry. No raincheck or reschedule in the text. I said I'd see him out and about sometime to complete the interaction. Oh well. At least now I can make alternate plans for Monday.
USMCHokie Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Thanks for the advice. I texted asking if we were on for Monday. He responded an hour later saying he couldn't make it and sorry. No raincheck or reschedule in the text. I said I'd see him out and about sometime to complete the interaction. Oh well. At least now I can make alternate plans for Monday. Meh, this is horsesh*t...he didn't even take the initiative to let you know that he couldn't make it? So if you hadn't contacted him first, he would have just left you hanging? What an inconsiderate douche... LAUNCH...
jamesum Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 Thanks for the advice. I texted asking if we were on for Monday. He responded an hour later saying he couldn't make it and sorry. No raincheck or reschedule in the text. I said I'd see him out and about sometime to complete the interaction. Oh well. At least now I can make alternate plans for Monday. See? It was easy wasnt it? And now you are no longer burdened by constant wondering. Life will be much easier for a lot of women if they start adopting a bit more of 'male traits' such as being more assertive and paying more attention to what you want first then think about what the other person might think.
Mad Max Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 See? It was easy wasnt it? And now you are no longer burdened by constant wondering. Life will be much easier for a lot of women if they start adopting a bit more of 'male traits' such as being more assertive and paying more attention to what you want first then think about what the other person might think. Yep, agreed.
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