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Or tells me she's not interested? What do you think of this strategy? This girl I like keeps responding to my texts. Maybe she's bored?

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Or tells me she's not interested? What do you think of this strategy? This girl I like keeps responding to my texts. Maybe she's bored?

 

Have you told her you like her? If you have and nothing is happening...dude, do not do this to yourself. Stop.

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Or tells me she's not interested? What do you think of this strategy? This girl I like keeps responding to my texts. Maybe she's bored?

 

 

why dont you try asking her out? (I know the perfect date)

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I think that strategy is pretty dumb. lol

 

If she likes you as a friend, she probably just thinks you're friendly and a chronic texter. If she digs you, and you don't ask her out, she'll start to think your texts are annoying. Ask her out and you'll have your answer of whether she likes you too or not.

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Have you told her you like her?

 

No I haven't but actions speak louder than words. Already been on 3 dates with her. But the past month she's been making excuses on why she can't make it.

 

 

why dont you try asking her out? (I know the perfect date)

 

I have.

 

I think that strategy is pretty dumb. lol

 

If she likes you as a friend, she probably just thinks you're friendly and a chronic texter. If she digs you, and you don't ask her out, she'll start to think your texts are annoying. Ask her out and you'll have your answer of whether she likes you too or not.

 

She knows my intentions so there's no way im in the friend zone. We last hung out a month ago. We kissed, lot of touching, etc. She even mentioned a couple times we should do this and do that in the future. But she keeps making excuses, never initiates anything, but continues responding to texts. I figured if she was trying to give me a hint, she would stop responding to me.

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She knows my intentions so there's no way im in the friend zone. We last hung out a month ago. We kissed, lot of touching, etc. She even mentioned a couple times we should do this and do that in the future. But she keeps making excuses, never initiates anything, but continues responding to texts. I figured if she was trying to give me a hint, she would stop responding to me.

 

you know the answer to this really, don't you? you should let it go

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you know the answer to this really, don't you? you should let it go

 

Actually since our last date a month ago, I only asked her out once...it was last minute (a day before). Should I ask her when she's free?

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Actually since our last date a month ago, I only asked her out once...it was last minute (a day before). Should I ask her when she's free?

 

You've probably ****ed it up by stalling too long inbetween. Yah or whatever her name was actually had the perfect reply (the one about you being a chronic texter). You can ask her out one more time, but you did describe her as "constantly" finding excuses. In this case I would just ditch her and leave it up to her to set something up.

 

Fwiw she's probably responding to the texts because she enjoys the attention and likes feeling wanted by men.

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Actually since our last date a month ago, I only asked her out once...it was last minute (a day before). Should I ask her when she's free?

 

you can if you don't expect too much from it just as a peace of mind. if she says no (it's possible I suppose she is just waiting for you to ask again) then walk away

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