Raderick Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 So today I was talking to a gal I found to be cute, and when I asked what she did for a living, she couldn't be any more blunt about it by saying she is a stripper. Nonetheless I do have her phone number (got it before I asked what she did) and I'm debating if I should go through with this or not. This is screaming trouble, at least in my perspective.
meerkat stew Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 No absolutely not on the porn star, would be very unlikely on the stripper. I met a girl back in the late eighties who was a stripper that I would have dated. She was earning tuition for a doctorate in philosophy from an expensive school and philosophers are some poorly paid mofos, so I didn't hold that too much against her. We never went out because when I called her number some dude answered the phone Strippers are more prone to addiction problems and personality disorders than the female population at large, and often have a criminal element in their associations. Be careful.
John Bigboote Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 If it's "screaming trouble" from your perspective, then don't date her. But the reality is that she's doing a job that pays the rent, and quite well at that. As for her part, when you asked what she did for a living, she told you the truth. You wouldn't have described responses like "doctor" or "lawyer" as being "blunt," so you have a particular problem with stripping. She probably gives that response because (a) it's true, and (b) immediately weeds out the guys who are going to judge her for it. So it's probably best for all concerned that you walk away.
nat_nat Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 I think if your initial instinct tells you it's a bad idea, then don't date her! It's probably not worth all the worry when there are SO many women out there that do jobs that don't involve being naked. It can only be your decision and you need to ask yourself if you'd be prepared to have a load of creepy guys drooling over her all night and seeing parts of her body that possibly should be for a partners eyes only.
carhill Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 If I were, for example, to run into a nice lady, hit it off with her, and later discover she had been a famous porn star, I doubt it would make much difference in the here and now. If she was currently working in the business, my perspective would necessarily be different, if a relationship was what I was looking for. I would have a difficult time getting past what she did (in the here and now) for a living.
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