SlevinKalebra Posted August 29, 2010 Posted August 29, 2010 I had responded to a thread in the "seeking..." section and thought it might be good to hear other's thoughts on my own. If a guy comes off as I'll do anything for you "move mountains" etc... it's not only not being strong and "nice" it's coming off as I don't have enough in my life so I'll do anything for you. Imagine a girl that followed you around, pulled out your chair, blew on your soup, wiped your face if you had something on it. This is the persona that comes off. Would you tell your buddy, while watching the game "hey man I'd do anything for you. I'd move mountains for you." (without a couple of six packs of course. Friendly drunk buddies are always fun though:D ). No, of course not but they know odds are if they asked you to help them move, you'd probably be there for them. Difference of a doormat and a nice guy. Just because it's a female guys want to go the extra ten thousand miles. --------------------- Stop.---------------------------- Women always say they want to be treated as equals and it's true. Guys that have the split personality between the genders do not come off as genuine. Because they are not and women are turned off by that. I'm not saying you should go up to a woman and fart on her because that's how you joke around with friends. But other than the obvious there should be absolutely no difference who you are. I want to go on and on because I don't think enough guys get this. Then they get mad at women. Please ladies back me up a little
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