carealothugs Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 An update ok he wanted to give us a shot an said on msn I was away from the computer and came back to see it then when I brought up what he called me after an arguement he went weird again but later again made up we were fine I didn't text a whole day as I didn't want to seem too keen when I am but didn't want to seem "needy" and anyway and I didn't hear from him till next day when I asked him if me an him were still giving it a shot he replied saying nope and that hes got a gf all of a sudden that I don't believe now he tells me not to speak to him unless I want to speak to his "new gf" now a friendships ruiend and I havent done anything whys he being like this and how long should I wait to make contact its hurting hes total differnt now I don't get it why say ok give it a shot and thinking were fine when suddenly hes with someone?
Pink Cupcakes Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 (edited) I know you really liked this guy, but you have no choice but to move on. He either 1. has a girlfriend or 2. made up a girlfriend so you would stop contacting him. Either way, it means he does not want to be with you and is not "into you." I didn't read your backstory, but whether you were dating before or you just liked him and he lead you to believe there was something there....now he has made it clear he is not interested. the best way to get him out of your system is to remove and possibly block him from your cell phone, your email, your msn......then please don't contact him. I mean, please as in you will be helping yourself move on and get over him. I know you want answers to his behavior but no one can really answer why he suddenly is not interested when he seemed like he was before. He just isn't, and as much as you wanted that to be, it just isn't and when a guy says "I have a girlfriend" he is making it crystal clear that he is not interested in you. Even if he is making it up...actually that is even worse, because he's trying to get you to leave him alone. He KNOWS you don't want to discuss his "new girlfriend" with him, which is him saying "I don't want to talk to you." I'm sorry you are hurting, but please move on and eventually you will find someone who likes you as much as you like them (in a romantic way.) Edited August 28, 2010 by Pink Cupcakes
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