DanielH Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 the other day I manned up and told a girl I like her even though I never got the impression she liked me. And t turns out she does. We went out and got ice cream right afetr and sat at a park on swings talking for a long time. I have never dated anyone before. I am 21 and have no idea what to do. I think I will be doing something with her Sunday or Monday. What are some good date ideas for possibly new relationships?
Green Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 the other day I manned up and told a girl I like her even though I never got the impression she liked me. And t turns out she does. In the future just ASK OUT a girl you like. No reason for you to say "I LIKE YOU" or anything like that. Much better to show a girl through ACTIONS not WORDS how you feel. The fact is you should just ASK OUT any girl WHO YOU LIKE and not worry about if they like you. In this situation you romanticly engaged a girl you liked but had no idea like you back and look how great it has worked out so far. The fact is you might have made her like you by showing interest in her. Showing interest in a girl by ASKING HER OUT can make her start getting feelings for you. We went out and got ice cream right afetr and sat at a park on swings talking for a long time. Sounds like a good date... WHY DIDN"T YOU KISS HER THOUGH?!? You need to realize that it is very important to KISS a girl on a date. Don't expect her to just kiss you and DON"T ASK just KISS her with out asking. If she doesn't want to be kissed she'll dodge your kiss. Just get close and do it. If the date is ending DO NOT SAY GOODBYE with out getting ur kiss. Use a hug and kiss her then. Remember don' ask just DO IT. It will only increase your chances of getting more dates if you try to kiss the girl. It makes you look cool and makes the girl like you more. Obviously some dates won't work out but the kiss will only increase your odds of success. Don't look at as "I'll play it safe and friendly and then she will like me" WRONGGGGGGGGG Be bold, be yourself... go for that kiss. I have never dated anyone before. I am 21 and have no idea what to do. I think I will be doing something with her Sunday or Monday. What are some good date ideas for possibly new relationships? Well like I said the best date idea is to kiss her... if you had kissed her last date you could have made out with her this date and believe me that would have made time fly. Some date ideas are taking her to the beach, going to an amusement park, going bowling. Have some drinks get a buz going just do something YOU FIND FUN. And KISS HER. I myself didn't have my first kiss until I was 22 and had graduated from college... so your ahead of where I was at when I was your age if you get the kiss.... the kissssssssssssssss
Feelin Frisky Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Don't listen to Green. But seriously, it sounds like Daniel is moving along well. Date ideas would depend on where you live, what you can afford, just logistics. I suggest doing something that gives you a chance to continue to connect with her--dinners, movies and strolls, take her to a dance club if you have one that's not way out of the way. Ultimate cage fighting is out. If you are on a coast, the beach is still in season. Maybe take her to a fireworks display on Labor Day weekend if there's one accessible to you. See how things go and then it should be more obvious what to do--you'll get cues and vibes from her as to what she will like and not. Good times.
Author DanielH Posted August 28, 2010 Author Posted August 28, 2010 In the future just ASK OUT a girl you like. No reason for you to say "I LIKE YOU" or anything like that. Much better to show a girl through ACTIONS not WORDS how you feel. The fact is you should just ASK OUT any girl WHO YOU LIKE and not worry about if they like you. In this situation you romanticly engaged a girl you liked but had no idea like you back and look how great it has worked out so far. The fact is you might have made her like you by showing interest in her. Showing interest in a girl by ASKING HER OUT can make her start getting feelings for you. Sounds like a good date... WHY DIDN"T YOU KISS HER THOUGH?!? You need to realize that it is very important to KISS a girl on a date. Don't expect her to just kiss you and DON"T ASK just KISS her with out asking. If she doesn't want to be kissed she'll dodge your kiss. Just get close and do it. If the date is ending DO NOT SAY GOODBYE with out getting ur kiss. Use a hug and kiss her then. Remember don' ask just DO IT. It will only increase your chances of getting more dates if you try to kiss the girl. It makes you look cool and makes the girl like you more. Obviously some dates won't work out but the kiss will only increase your odds of success. Don't look at as "I'll play it safe and friendly and then she will like me" WRONGGGGGGGGG Be bold, be yourself... go for that kiss. Well like I said the best date idea is to kiss her... if you had kissed her last date you could have made out with her this date and believe me that would have made time fly. Some date ideas are taking her to the beach, going to an amusement park, going bowling. Have some drinks get a buz going just do something YOU FIND FUN. And KISS HER. I myself didn't have my first kiss until I was 22 and had graduated from college... so your ahead of where I was at when I was your age if you get the kiss.... the kissssssssssssssss Haha well I had actually gone out with her before, a few times. But never made it known how I felt and I had a feeling she might look at it as just friends hanging out. I even stopped asking her out for a while because that is how I thought she felt. So it was more like "hey I keep asking you to do stuff because I really like you" and she said she liked me too. I live in New Zealand. There doesn't feel like there is much to do, especially on a Sunday or Monday.
Dante311 Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Personally, I'm not a fan of conventional dates... dinner + a movie. Eh. Dinner is always nice, but I believe it shouldn't be how much money you're going to spend. It should be about QUALITY. you want to learn who this person is... beyond the shadows of friendship and enter into a surreality that redefines and illuminates the captivating image you have of this person. ...One fun date... I once went ziplining / rappelling with a girl. Why? No matter how much we try NOT to... we all put up a veneer to masquerade the flaws within, subconsciously. I'm guilty of this... and so are you (yeah, you, reader). When the adrenaline is coursing through your veins... your body temperature rises... your heart races... your pupils fixate and dilate... the brain / neurological stem system emit millions of spontaneous electrical impulses that evoke millions of afferent and efferent neurons.... ....and you reveal yourself in all your truth, beauty, and glory. We then went for ice cream and SHE kissed ME. It's too bad we didn't work out. I liked that one.
BobSacamento Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Take her skydiving. That's your answer to everything.
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