Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I feel like an idiot for not knowing, but here it goes: I worked at a womens clothing store where my job was to attract customers. I never thought of myself as that good looking, but in this economy, a job's a job. Anyway, the first girl was Christine. This girl basically looked like a model, even without makeup. Perfect figure, the whole nine. She was pretty quiet and didn't say much. However, she never came across as friendly. She always gave that stuck up impression. Not that she was necessarily stuck up, but she never went out of her way to talk to me, unlike most of the other employees. In the 3 months I worked there(I just left), I only recall her saying 1 word to me. The second girl was Jamie. She never went out of her way to talk to me either, but she did say more than 1 word to me in the 3 months. Unlike Christine, Jamie never gave the stuck up impression. She seemed to be genuinely shy. So the last day I'm there, most of the employees come to say good bye and wish me well. Just as I'm walking out the door, Christine says Jamie wants to go on a date with me. I'm guessing one of them is interested for her to say that. Just not sure which one. I feel like an idiot for not knowing, but I'm thinking about visiting the store at some point to say hello and I'm just curious to know which one was interested(assuming one of them was).
that girl Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I see no reason not to take it at face value, Christine thinks Jamie likes you. But since you're more attracted to Christine, you're hoping she's the one who really likes you.
carhill Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Would you have asked either of them out? Go with that. Tip: Avoid mind-f*cks by doing what *you* want. If you want to ask Jamie out on a date, do that. If you want to ask Christine out on a date, do that. If both, do that. Care less about what they say and more about what you *do*. Good luck and women's clothes will miss you
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 I see no reason not to take it at face value, Christine thinks Jamie likes you. But since you're more attracted to Christine, you're hoping she's the one who really likes you. I'm actually attracted to them about the same. I'm leaning more towards Jamie only because she doesn't come across as stuck up.
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 Why not go for the one that you like? I'm attracted to both of them. If I know beforehand which one is attracted to me, it'll save me a lot of time.
CLC2008 Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I'm attracted to both of them. If I know beforehand which one is attracted to me, it'll save me a lot of time. Oh. Well, I guess this is how men/women differ, I would want to go out with the one I liked best, not because I wanted to "save time".
carhill Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 The key is you don't 'know'. You're watching those lovely lips moving and believing them. I need a proper emoticon for this....
skydiveaddict Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 The key is you don't 'know'. You're watching those lovely lips moving and believing them. I need a proper emoticon for this.... He knows he's just playing a game and wants responses from us
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 Oh. Well, I guess this is how men/women differ, I would want to go out with the one I liked best, not because I wanted to "save time". It would be pointless to pursue someone that doesn't feel the same way. That's why if I can get an idea beforehand, I won't waste time pursuing someone that isn't interested.
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 He knows he's just playing a game and wants responses from us I truly don't know. If I knew, I wouldn't waste time creating a thread.
kalikula Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I don't get it... Wouldn't it be Jamie then...?
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 I don't get it... Wouldn't it be Jamie then...? The thing I question is, why would Christine say such a thing? This girl was probably the quietiest after Jamie. I look it at from two perspectives: 1)Christine was trying to help Jamie out 2)Christine is the one interested and is trying to make it seem as if she's not I'm not saying it isn't Jamie, but the fact that Christine made the original comment confuses me.
NYCGirly Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Simple- Christine doesn't like you. If she did she would've at least said more than 2 words to you. Though that also depends on how old she is. Usually the younger ones think playing coy is the way to land a guy since you don't want to come off as desperate. The older you get the more you realize how much bullsh&t that is and you start sending signals left and right to guys you like. So I guess it's hard to say but if I had to choose I would go with Jamie. No heavy lifting involved there. You know she likes you so go for it.
skydiveaddict Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I truly don't know. If I knew, I wouldn't waste time creating a thread. Oh bull**** quit being such a girly man. You could have any girl you want and you know it.
CLC2008 Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 It would be pointless to pursue someone that doesn't feel the same way. That's why if I can get an idea beforehand, I won't waste time pursuing someone that isn't interested. Okay well that makes sense. But I don't see how you can get a true idea beforehand, without asking either of them out.
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 Simple- Christine doesn't like you. If she did she would've at least said more than 2 words to you. Though that also depends on how old she is. Usually the younger ones think playing coy is the way to land a guy since you don't want to come off as desperate. The older you get the more you realize how much bullsh&t that is and you start sending signals left and right to guys you like. So I guess it's hard to say but if I had to choose I would go with Jamie. No heavy lifting involved there. You know she likes you so go for it. Christine is 22(my age) and Jamie is 25. Neither are all that young. Oh bull**** quit being such a girly man. You could have any girl you want and you know it. You do realize my avatar isn't me, right?
skydiveaddict Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I dont give a **** what your avatar looks like. You should do something else for yourself besides hanging out in women's clothing stores for a living
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 I dont give a **** what your avatar looks like. You should do something else for yourself besides hanging out in women's clothing stores for a living That was a weekend job. I make my living as a construction worker.
kalikula Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I think probably Jamie if Christine and Jamie are kinda friends. You almost have to go out of your way to say so little to someone you work with /see on occasion!
Author Mad Max Posted August 27, 2010 Author Posted August 27, 2010 What's your trade? Highway repair
Stung Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 I dont give a **** what your avatar looks like. You should do something else for yourself besides hanging out in women's clothing stores for a living :lmao: Damn Skydive, tell him what you really think. Max, your thinking seems unnecessarily convoluted here. I have never seen a girl try to imply she was interested in a guy by telling him her friend/coworker was actually interested in him, outside of maybe crappy Disney teen TV. It makes zero sense and most girls should be smart enough to know that back-asswards strategy would be likely to bite them in the butt. I'd stick with Occam's Razor on this one.
Intergalactic Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 (edited) Simple- Christine doesn't like you. If she did she would've at least said more than 2 words to you. Though that also depends on how old she is. Usually the younger ones think playing coy is the way to land a guy since you don't want to come off as desperate. The older you get the more you realize how much bullsh&t that is and you start sending signals left and right to guys you like. not necessarily. i don't like to admit this since i'm 22, but i am very very shy despite being not completely unattractive and i find it hard to talk to guys i like. case in point: i am university student, last semester i liked a guy who used to sit next to me in class every time we had that class without fail, even if his friends sat elsewhere. he would try and talk to me but that made me like him more, and i retreated into my shell more. i have really said barely anything to him and i know now that he gave up trying to talk to me because i never responded. but it wasn't because i didn't like him - quite the opposite. i just suffer from poor self esteem and that made me think that he would never like me (romantically or otherwise) despite the fact that he made a serious effort to talk to me. OP - you should date the one you like the most. if you like them both equally but think that christine is genuinely rude.. (i don't know how you could like her then though, unless it was just for her looks) then go for jamie. weigh up the options and go for what you want though. Edited August 27, 2010 by Intergalactic
dispatch3d Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 your two scenarios don't make any sense to me. Christine may be trying to help jamie out, so she said jamie wants to go on a date with you. Christine could also be ****ing with jamie by getting you to ask her out. This is a grade 5 level joke. If you think about this any harder, I'm sure you can come up with other possible scenarios. Who gives a ****. Sounds like jamie wants a date. Give her one.
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