KellieTeal Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Hey all. This is my very first post on this sight, but I've been reading it a lot lately. Recently I've been going through some stuff so I decided to finally signup and post. m It's a little silly but, maybe some of you can give me advice. I recently finished my first year of university and met this guy. He was my friends brother, but we had never really talked until about June. I must admit, I did like him. And the more we talked and got to know each other the more my like for him grew. We've been going steady for about a month and a half now. I know, it sounds all peachy. But I feel myself becoming so confused. He's already said I love you. He's already told me he wants to marry me. He's already told me he wants to live his life with me by his side. However, I have not even said I love you yet! I feel like I'm taking baby steps, but he's already finished the race. I tell him all the time not to rush me. Perhaps I should be a little more firm. But every time I try to be, it ends up in an argument. I like him a lot and I want this to work so bad. But there are definitely times when I just want to break up because it's going way to fast. He's so caring, but at the same time, he's getting to far ahead of himself. I don't know how to handle the situation. I feel like I've dug a hole for myself and I can't get out.
stargirlxo Posted August 28, 2010 Posted August 28, 2010 Your post made me very uneasy... Talking about marriage so early on is crazy, and you sound really trapped... I think you should read this. http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml
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