Dirty liar :[

[912458]

I have been dating this guy i love very much for over a year.

He loves me to and we've planned our future together and everything.

We have done many things as foreplay but we've never had sex.

When we met i told him i was a virgin and so was he.

the truth is, im not :/ and the reason is because it was pretty much taken from me at 15. The guy at that time kept pressuring and i never gave in. before it was taken i told him i wanted to save it for the man i married and at that moment it went inside it was gone. I didnt even love this guy. I love my current boyfriend more than anything, How am i supposed to tell him about this :'[ i feel so dirty knowing that im not the virgin he thinks i am and i lied to him?! I lied because its not something i would want to admit especially how it happened. I cry because it kills me inside...imagine how he'll feel :[ Oh help me!! :[[

[sugarmomma]

Are you saying that you were raped? Did you all finish the act? Did you stay together? Or press charges?

 

Not enough details.

[lilyy.12]

I can realrte to your story & i must say i completly understand you.

 

I ad a boyfriend at 15 but he was also pressuring me into having sex.

so we broke up

 

it hurt like hell but my family values were the most important. No matter what happens my ex & I keep in touch its jsut weird

 

so when i turned 17 we went clubbin & tobe honest i never stopped loving him so it happened but later after we had sex i realized that it wasnt the appropiate way.

 

so im 20 & i have a new bf.& i did tell him that i wasnt a virgin because even i lied my ex wouldve made sure he knew so i would look like a liar.

 

my bf was upset but he understood that i was young and stupid.

 

in my opinion u shouldnt take this like abad thing, think of it as a test to see how much your bf rally loves you.he may say if u lioved me u woudltn lie its true but u r scared because u really care.

 

good luck my dear.

 

XOXO:love:

[Gil]

I have been dating this guy i love very much for over a year.

He loves me to and we've planned our future together and everything.

We have done many things as foreplay but we've never had sex.

When we met i told him i was a virgin and so was he.

the truth is, im not :/ and the reason is because it was pretty much taken from me at 15. The guy at that time kept pressuring and i never gave in. before it was taken i told him i wanted to save it for the man i married and at that moment it went inside it was gone. I didnt even love this guy. I love my current boyfriend more than anything, How am i supposed to tell him about this :'[ i feel so dirty knowing that im not the virgin he thinks i am and i lied to him?! I lied because its not something i would want to admit especially how it happened. I cry because it kills me inside...imagine how he'll feel :[ Oh help me!! :[[

 

Hey there.

 

Virginity doesnt mean a thing in my opinion. It might be a good indicator of fidelity etc, but in your case you never intended to lose it. So pick up your chin, consider yourself a born again virgin, and don't let it bother you!