catersi Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 How can you tell if a girl will sleep with you when on a date, this is not a girlfriend or a wife, just a date. How can i tell that she is thinking about sleeping with me or is considering? What do i look for? Or what can i say or do to make my chances of sleeping with her better within the first second or third date?
jamesum Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 How can you tell if a girl will sleep with you when on a date, this is not a girlfriend or a wife, just a date. How can i tell that she is thinking about sleeping with me or is considering? What do i look for? Or what can i say or do to make my chances of sleeping with her better within the first second or third date? If she is touchy feely especially if she keeps rubbing your thigh.
phineas Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 How can you tell if a girl will sleep with you when on a date, this is not a girlfriend or a wife, just a date. How can i tell that she is thinking about sleeping with me or is considering? What do i look for? Or what can i say or do to make my chances of sleeping with her better within the first second or third date? I've been damn near raped by women I was dateing & never saw it coming. Total shocker to me. I am horrible at reading the signs.
HippyChic Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 From a womens perspective: Tell yourself the 1st date is a no go zone. Then the girl will have more respect for you on the second date, making it more likely to happen. Body language is a good tell tale sign. Girls will use physical contact and try to get closer. Like already suggested the thigh and arm rubbing thing. Also, are her kness pointing towards you, playing with her hair, and giving that cute smile girls do when they want something . One way to tell if an attraction is there, is to look at the pupils. It's been suggested that they get bigger if you like what you see. Good Luck!
Green Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 You just have to try your hardest (respectfuly) and hope for the best.
Philetus Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 From a womens perspective: Tell yourself the 1st date is a no go zone. Then the girl will have more respect for you on the second date, making it more likely to happen. Body language is a good tell tale sign. Girls will use physical contact and try to get closer. Like already suggested the thigh and arm rubbing thing. Also, are her kness pointing towards you, playing with her hair, and giving that cute smile girls do when they want something . One way to tell if an attraction is there, is to look at the pupils. It's been suggested that they get bigger if you like what you see. Good Luck! +1. To quote John Cleese, "why not start her off with a kiss boy?". Don't even THINK about sex until you've kissed her. Assume it isn't going to happen and enjoy the date without worrying about it. Tell yourself before you go out, "I'm not having sex tonight." If things are going well, does she look you in the eye and smile? Do that to her and if she holds your eye contact and smiles you can kiss her 90% of the time. Does she open her mouth? Is it passionate? Does it last longer than a few seconds? These are good indications that she's warming up to you. Depending on your location (is it private?) you can escalate things while kissing. If it's private, put your hand on her ribs below her breast. If she flinches DON'T grab her breast. If she presses harder into you GO FOR IT! Don't mention the word 'sex'. Tell her you want to be alone with her or invite her back to your place. If she says, "I don't want to have sex", agree with her. Of course, that doesn't mean she doesn't want to. The bottom line is you have to be totally ready to NOT have it. Go only as far as she is comfortable. If she feels safe with you, she's more likely to relax and go for it. How can you increase your odds during date #2 and on? Tell her that you find her sexy and attractive, that you want to be with her but she is in control of the timing. You will only go as far as she wants, reassure her that you will wait for her. Never push anyone into having sex with you. It increases anxiety and kills their libido. You want them to feel attractive, appreciated, and sexy but most of all that they can trust you and feel safe with you. One final word, this only works if you're sincere. People can tell when you're lying so you have to believe this for it to work. Good luck.
meerkat stew Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Dance with her, easy and telling. Also, people are more likely to do things when they think it's their idea as opposed to being "sold." People are also more likely to do things they feel are permitted, that won't result in them being judged, and this is especially true of women thinking about having sex with a man for the first time.
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