BiAxident Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 The original saga is contained here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t241504/6 You guys all told me that I was being strung along, but I had hoped that she just needed space to think things over. Well, she used the space at a music festival to meet up with a guy she had been exchanging e-mails with after they met on match.com -- right before she shut the account down having chosen me. I didn't make her heart flutter, but she said when she saw this guy in person, it was like getting hit by a train. So, she called me as she was leaving the festival this morning to say that we needed to talk, and when we spoke on Facebook, she said that she had to break up with me. She is certain, after one weekend, that this is the guy she wants to spend the rest of her life with. She is sure that love at first sight actually exists, and that she doesnt need to wait to see if she loves me. So, you we're all right. Now, after having broken NC, moving onto FWB and then full-on dating, I'm right back where I was two years ago. In part, I just wanted to thank the LS community for preparing me for the blow, and to ask that you wish me luck -- I'm going to need it!
spookie Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 Time to forget about this psycho b!tch and start thinking about your life.... Start working out (or work out harder) and send that resume outside michigan.....
Woggle Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 A year from now she will be doing the same to this guy or maybe he will break her heart.
sugarmomma Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Please go NC. Talking to her will only keep you caught up. Delete her from all social networking and block her number from your phone. Verizon has this option and I love it. You will survive. Best wishes.
meerkat stew Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 Best wishes! She's not worth your while, she is about to be pumped and dumped though, so she will be back in touch sooner rather than later. Ignore her.
FearandLoathing Posted August 24, 2010 Posted August 24, 2010 I am so sorry this happened It's very hard but you know you need to go completely NC and get on with your life, 100% this time. Meaning, if she drops this guy in a year and wants you back you need to be strong enough to say no. This is not time for a lecture about that though! I wish you good luck with the times ahead of you, stay strong and remember who you are You'll get through this!
Author BiAxident Posted August 24, 2010 Author Posted August 24, 2010 Thanks for the kind words, F&L, and thanks even more for the chat last night. Hope to see you there again.
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