Eclypse Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 Well I posted a few weeks ago that in a fit of passion me and my girlfriend didn't use protection during sex but instead "pulled out." We tried this 3-4 times throughout the course of the month. Lately though however we were both worried about the chances of pregnancy. It did place some stress on our relationship and I'd say this signified the end of our "honeymoon phase." Neither of us is ready for pregnancy at our age and have only been dating for a few months really. But today however I found out the good news! All will be well. So why am I posting this? Well most of the research I did on fertile cycles and coitus interruptus suggested we were safe, but there was always that itch in the back of my mind that wondered if we were screwed. So my advice is, it's probably safe... but don't do it! I don't know if I could spend another month worrying constantly.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 Well I posted a few weeks ago that in a fit of passion me and my girlfriend didn't use protection during sex but instead "pulled out." We tried this 3-4 times throughout the course of the month. Lately though however we were both worried about the chances of pregnancy. It did place some stress on our relationship and I'd say this signified the end of our "honeymoon phase." Neither of us is ready for pregnancy at our age and have only been dating for a few months really. But today however I found out the good news! All will be well. So why am I posting this? Well most of the research I did on fertile cycles and coitus interruptus suggested we were safe, but there was always that itch in the back of my mind that wondered if we were screwed. So my advice is, it's probably safe... but don't do it! I don't know if I could spend another month worrying constantly. Good for you glad it worked out ok and you seam to have learned from it is she also on the pill as condoms alone are not full proof?
Author Eclypse Posted August 23, 2010 Author Posted August 23, 2010 She isn't on the pill, not sure what the hormones will end up doing. But we are probably going to try it at some stage. And I mentioned in an earlier thread, I actually have some trouble orgasming through vaginal stimulation alone. So a lot of the time I don't even orgasm. But recently I've started to be able to do it even with a condom on. We always check to see if it's broken when we take it off. So far so good
Knittress Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 Get on pills and DO IT NOW. My ex became a teenage father, even after they had a pregnancy scare! He's one of those remarkably intelligent (heh, sometimes) odds-beating people and he's done alright for himself. The girl, on the other hand...
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