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How big of a detriment is it being an Indian (India) guy in the dating world?

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Labster12 Established Member

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I need to ask this and get this off my back. I have heard from various people that being a Black or White guy is a huge plus in the dating world, especially if you are trying to get with an Asian or Hispanic women. I am an Indian guy who loves Asian and Hispanic women. Well problem is, I have never really seen an Indian guy - Asian girl pairing and right now I am going with this Puerto Rican girl but she is heavily Americanized.

 

Now I heard that if an Indian guy in the US is trying to get with Asian or Hispanic women, he will have a very tough time. Mainly because Hispanic or Asian women date within their own ethnic group or when they date out they go for Black or White guys due to the fact that the US Media makes them seem like god. Soon I will be moving to a more diverse place (hopefully the Northeast).

 

In the dating world if an Indian guy is trying to get with a Hispanic or Asian woman, will he have a tough time?

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this one kind of focuses on another topic

Sabali Established Member

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Forget all of what you heard, man. Just go after the woman you want. It's about the man you are. We're all pink on the inside!

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Depends. Just how Indian Indinish Indian are you? Do you smell like a walking tandoori and dress like a Sikh? Or are you a modern urbanite who isn't juggling the Bhagavad Gita among your favorites of Bollywood?

 

Personally, I think Indians from the sub-continent are one of the world's most naturally hansom people--even in their most ethnic iterations. One's appeal in the melting pot however may depend upon how "Indian Indinish Indian" you are and whether or not you're ready to meet the rest of the world at least half way. I jest of course. But you seem to have a bit of a hang up based upon gross generalizations. Having more confidence and asserting yourself rather than second-guessing yourself would be a good investment in your sexual mobility. Lift up that proud brown face and soldier on.

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How Indian am I?

 

Other than eating some Indian food for dinner here and there and speaking to my parents in Hindi, I am not that Indian at all. I don't have the accent, people say Indians don't wear deodorant but I wear deodorant (Old Spice), I eat beef and all types of meat even pork, I hang out mainly with Black and White people, and I am not that much into Blondes or Redheads like most Indian guys are.

 

I am wondering if me just being Indian alone will give me a tough time with Hispanic and Asian women in the future when I do move out, though I am hoping the Latina I am with right now works out with me (we went to the movies and traded kisses and all that).

 

Is being Indian like a tag that draws women away from you? (Asian and Hispanic women in particular since I have never seen an Indian guy Asian girl or Indian guy Latina pairing)

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Everyone has difficulties. Even White hot chicks have difficulties to find the right man for a serious relationship. It has nothing to do with your race.

It has only to do with your brains and level of your emotional intelligence.

If you are capable of seeing/making connection with a human soul inside the hot body, you should have no problems to do any race. Liking Indian men are just a preference the same as you have preferences for Asians/Latinos.

If you are dating IRL, it should be easier.

As for dating online, most Indian men have a reputation of presenting themselves in a certain way.

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Man, I really hope you are able to just throw this whole concept out that you being Indian will be a hindrance to you dating women from other races. You first have to get that idea out of your head.

 

The women who are open-minded enough to date outside of their race will give you just as much of a chance as anyone else considering you have some sort of mojo. Now, some women do say "I can't just see myself dating this sort of guy" but I think the great quality of the man himself prevails in many cases.

 

So if you are an Indian woman that date Native American guys, I feel that you can date me since you already got past the hard part which is being open-mined to date outside of your race in the first place.

 

Don't look at your race as a barrier. That is key and anything can and will happen.

 

What if everyone in this forum told you that you have a snowball chance in hell with dating a Hispanic woman? Would that actually stop you from approaching these women? You are attracted to Hispanic women and you would let another person's opinion stop you from actually trying to date one? Probably not so just go for it. Don't underestimate what a good dose of testosterone can accomplish.

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From my personal experience, I saw a few Indian men from online for the first date. I was open to try the stuff but I did not go for that. And, I am totally positive that it was not because of their skin color or other things of their appearance. I was fine with their skin.

But, the way of their thinking was a turn off. They viewed me as a sexual object with no soul.

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Don't look at your race as a barrier. That is key and anything can and will happen.

 

This is the key and the reason why I've been giving you so much sh*t in your threads... I spent the first 25 years of my life thinking that women wouldn't be interested in dating me because I'm Asian, so I didn't even bother asking them out, even after countless people told me that that wasn't the case at all...so then I finally decided I'd had enough, pulled my head out of my ass, and stopped caring about race in the dating game...

 

Yea, you might have a girl here and there who has racial preferences, and that's fine...it's her perogative...but for every one of those you come across, you'll find 10 more who don't give a hoot that you're Indian and would want to spend time with you because of your personality, character, and dashing good looks...

 

Bottom line is, don't create an issue out of nothing, especially if there wouldn't have been an issue to begin with...it looks like you're just trying to make race an issue here with these girls you're interested in even if it never would have been relevant...

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Well guys I primarily joined there forum to get some feedback. See I did not have encounters with diversity, I went to a mostly Black and White high school.

 

Whites sat with Whites and Blacks sat with Blacks, interracial dating was rare and unheard of. Then I go online and stuff and read about all these threads in which people are saying Asian guys may have a tough time getting girls and Indian guys have a tougher time getting girls. I also heard that Latinas and Asian women only go for White or Black men when they date out and usually I just never heard of Indian guys dating Latinas or Asian women at all, I felt discouraged.

 

Today I am over it, mods can lock and delete both of my threads because I see no point in them. Thing is, I am a man first and everything else second. If kisses and her smacking me on the behind don't mean that she is into me, then it is a screwed up world, in fact on her facebook page she even said she is in a relationship with me. Screw race and screw the hating screwballs out there that think just because I am an Indian I can't get with a Hispanic or Asian girl, they can die in their inbred thoughts.

 

Lock this thread if ya want mods, I will use this forum to talk about more interesting stuff.

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Today I am over it, mods can lock and delete both of my threads because I see no point in them. Thing is, I am a man first and everything else second. If kisses and her smacking me on the behind don't mean that she is into me, then it is a screwed up world, in fact on her facebook page she even said she is in a relationship with me. Screw race and screw the hating screwballs out there that think just because I am an Indian I can't get with a Hispanic or Asian girl, they can die in their inbred thoughts.

 

Lock this thread if ya want mods, I will use this forum to talk about more interesting stuff.

 

Good. I was just about to say, after Chokie just pointed it out, that you seem to be making the same sort of threads around here. It is good that you are about to stop this. Good luck in dating!

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a-effing-gain?

 

Dude, give the topic a rest.

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