Preparing for the juggle, smh..

[mr.dream merchant]

So recently I've found myself immersed in women. Not sure when where why or what, but women have been flocking towards me. I managed to link up with 5 different women in the past week.

 

Girl number 1 had a boyfriend, and had her friend get my number. Later on, I rethought the situation, and decided to forget about her.

 

Girl number 2 - Another, is actually the ex of the 1st girl's boyfriend. She's lovely, she can cook, she caters to her man, she has a car, a job, and goes to school, thing is she broke up with her ex 2 months ago.

 

Girl number 3 is beautiful, works, school, car..doesn't cook, but caters to her man...only thing is she suffers from anxiety and panic attacks if she gets a bit on the nervous side.

 

Girl number 4 was an acquaintance, she came down to South Beach to see me and we spent the evening together, and had some awesome sex, she's back in Gainesville now.

 

Out of all these women, 2 and 3 are girlfriend material to me. 1 is already out of the picture, and so is 4..for now. Thing is...2 and 3 have mutual friends, one of which, saw me Fri night because I went to help 2 with her drunk friends. One of 2 and 3's mutual friends actually started hitting on me, and asked 2 to "put her down" with me. 2 got upset because 2 is really into me.

 

Not sure what to do at this point. I've got 2 and 3 both under the charm right now, but I'm sure if I keep on it won't end well because they'll eventually find out. Oh yeah, 2 and 3's mutual friend that wanted to hook up with me is actually 3's really good friend.

 

There's been no talks of being exclusive, everything is in the feeling out period. I have gotten physical with 2 though. Mild kissing and caressing, that's about it. Sounds ****ed up but right now I'm just hoping one of them flakes before things get sticky.

[meerkat stew]

Don't go forward with three until you are absolutely sure that the panic attacks and anxiety aren't just the tip of the iceberg.

[mr.dream merchant]

Update.

 

Number 2 flaked. She winded up getting back with her ex, but still seeks advice from me lol, I just keep it polite and short. Not trying to be her friend or her counselor.

 

Number 3 is still in the picture, she's definitely sounding like she has major baggage though. I don't know if I want to deal with all her anxiety problems and what not, so she's probably going to get cut from the team so to speak.

 

Number 1 is now in the picture after her boyfriend (Number 2's ex) got back with Number 2. Number 1 is looking promising as far as fun goes, she's been sending me pictures of herself, and man, her body is smoking. I'm going to run through that pretty good lol. Definitely not going to date her though!

 

Lesson learned is all I can say.

[lso802]

I'd say get to know them and narrow it down. Even when you narrow it down to 2-3, you should still keep your options open. Just because a girl is the best out of the 5 you are dating, it doesn't mean she's the best for you.