headfirst Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 OK, So I went over to my bfs house on friday night and we got pizza and i stayed for a few hours. He had a cold. I told him to message me the next day and let me know he was feeling, I told him a couple times. Saturday ended and i didn't hear from him. It's now sunday evening and I still haven't heard from him. I haven't taken the liberty of calling him because a) maybe he was giving me a hint and b) I don't wanna come across as desperate. Either way I'm pretty annoyed. I know he has been out with his best friend this weekend. Should I be angry or am i being clingy?
anne1707 Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 And maybe he is wondering why you haven't bothered to call him to see how he feels......
Author headfirst Posted August 22, 2010 Author Posted August 22, 2010 I spent wed and thurs there buying him medication and cooking him soup. He just sent me a text asking how my weekend was. Nice to know he cares about me only after he has finished his weekend shenanigans.
TaurusTerp Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 I spent wed and thurs there buying him medication and cooking him soup. He just sent me a text asking how my weekend was. Nice to know he cares about me only after he has finished his weekend shenanigans. Nice to know you were stewing at home and getting angrier while he was obliviously having fun. Be more passive aggressive, thanks.
lora22 Posted August 22, 2010 Posted August 22, 2010 I see what the OP is saying - if she asked him to call her, I think he should call her - unless he said something to lead her to believe he wouldn't call. I agree with other posters that OP shouldn't be quite so angry that he didn't call when she didn't either, but the fact remains that NEITHER of them bothered to pick up the phone. If she's "bad" for not calling (whether or not she's the one pissed about it), then he is also. If she needs him to call her when he says he will to feel secure/loved, I think he should call if she has communicated that. However, I also am getting the impression from OP, perhaps mistakenly, that the real issue is she is angry he was out with his friends. Trust issues? Feeling taken for granted?
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