PhillyDude Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 But at the age of 24, I would call and leave leave nasty messages on her machine and get my blood up and yelling and screaming. But tonight someone was supposed to come over around 8pm and when got to be 8"20pnm I sent a text saying-"hey are you on your way? No response to the text and now it's 10:23pm. I actually gave up at 8:50pm because you kind of feel when someone is not going to show. So in the year 2000, I would call her and now say-"listen you dumb B*tch I see like wasting time and need to grow the F*ck up" In 2010-"I will not say a word, delete her number, and move on BTW-"I'm sure she had a "family emergency"-lol
Green Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 I wouldn't have sent her a txt at all. But thats good that it doesn't get you all upset anymore. Very mature of you. Pointless to let it ruin your week. Not fun to go throug but its over now.
Author PhillyDude Posted August 19, 2010 Author Posted August 19, 2010 I wouldn't have sent her a txt at all. But thats good that it doesn't get you all upset anymore. Very mature of you. Pointless to let it ruin your week. Not fun to go throug but its over now. well i sent the text because i thought she was on her way, then as time went on that' when i like-'oh uh, i been stood up"
Green Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 well i sent the text because i thought she was on her way, then as time went on that' when i like-'oh uh, i been stood up" Hey well maybe she died or got hurt. I remember this girl left a gold ring of sentimental value at my place once. I tried calling her but all my calls went unanswered. I kinda was pissed at her but I kinda wondered if she was just flaking out on me or if she had been hurt or killed... well a month later she called to get the ring back. We never talked again after I gave the ring back. I didn't feel like giving it back to her. what a bch
ViciousViolet Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 How effing rude of her. I'm getting mad for you, lol. I hate it when people do stuff like this.
Author PhillyDude Posted August 19, 2010 Author Posted August 19, 2010 How effing rude of her. I'm getting mad for you, lol. I hate it when people do stuff like this. I even was going to surprise her with the bottle of wine she wanted me to pick up. I don't have it in me to do this to a girl which makes a nice guy I guess
snowbell Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Good thing you didn't drown your sorrows with the bottle of wine later in the evening...I hope
zengirl Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 But at the age of 24, I would call and leave leave nasty messages on her machine and get my blood up and yelling and screaming. But tonight someone was supposed to come over around 8pm and when got to be 8"20pnm I sent a text saying-"hey are you on your way? No response to the text and now it's 10:23pm. I actually gave up at 8:50pm because you kind of feel when someone is not going to show. So in the year 2000, I would call her and now say-"listen you dumb B*tch I see like wasting time and need to grow the F*ck up" In 2010-"I will not say a word, delete her number, and move on BTW-"I'm sure she had a "family emergency"-lol No point getting angry. Deleting is the way to go. Those angry messages just made the gals feel good about leaving you stood up, likely, which is much more than they deserved.
phineas Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 I rarely contact someone after a blow-off these days. And i'll most likely ignore them if they send a text or call. And I did have to tell one woman that wouldn't stop calling & texting after she blew me off litterally hrs after she asked if she could stop by. "if you want to get with me, then get with me. Otherwise loose my number" because she wouldn't leave me alone when I started ignoring her. I would of shut off my phone but it's the only way my ex can contact me & we have kids.
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