lundhunden Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Hey Guys First of all, let me say that im a guy. I just got back from my first real date after some time being single after my ex. It was pretty cool and chill with a couple of coffees, we met online so didnt really know what to expect. But everything went great, the talking was good, smiling, laughing, her saying that I wasnt like other guys she has dated, and that it was so nice we can just talk talk talk without running out of subjects Plus, she discretely touched me a couple of times, seemingly if she got an opportunity to do so So im stoked about it really, ive had pretty low self-esteem after my ex dumped me. We ended with saying that we'd like to do this another night, hugged, kissed on the cheek, said bye, and she said 'well you have my number' and smiled. So where do i go from here? Do I write her tonight saying thanks for a great night, and that she could easily persuade me to do another, or should i wait a couple of days, tomorrow or? Im pretty rusty at this game Thanks in advance (PS: She just wrote an sms with thanks for a great night, that i was sweet and easy to talk to etc, and what my name was on facebook)
somedude81 Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Do not become friends with her on FB, nothing good can come of it. Just reply to her text and tell her that you had a great time. In a couple of days call her and set up the next date.
TuesGirl Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 No FB...not for awhile. text back (which I assume by now you have) and call her in 1-2 days and see what's up. If that convo goes well, ask if she would like to meet up again. Or have something in mind and ask her if she's free to join you. If she's interested she will either tell you 'yes' or she will say she can't due to a previous commitment but (and here is the important part) she'll offer an alternative time when she is free. If she doesn't, she may not be that interested. Good Luck!
Green Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 You should set up a second date now. say you want to do dinner tomorrow night. Heres what you did wrong... you didn't touch her... she just touched you. And you didn't kiss her on the LIPS.... cheek kiss is lame... LIP KISS thats where its at make sure you try for one. Don't be scared. You know what to do.
Author lundhunden Posted August 19, 2010 Author Posted August 19, 2010 Thanks guys Actually I did touch back, so that wasnt an issue. We texted back and forth, and she suggested that we should go out soon again and asked what I was doing saturday. So im going out for drinks with her then. Im aware of the kissing part, but apparently we're both a little hesitant about going too far in the start. You know how it is if youve got burned pretty bad - but no doubt, she'll get a kiss saturday. Thanks for the replies but things apparently sorted themselves out
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