DontWorryBHappy Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Ok so here's a situation. You've been in a satisfying relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend when suddenly your partner tells you he or she can no longer be with you due to not having time for a relationship (either because they have too many responsibilities at work, or at school, etc) so they break it off. The next evening they come back and tell you that now they feel they could possibly pursue the relationship. What would you do? (This is not a current situation for me but a past one..)
phineas Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 I'd assume they couldn't lock in the person they dumped me for.
mustangguy29 Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 If we had been together for a long time I would take them back. I know that is probably a mistake, but I would have to give them the benefit of the doubt. People make mistakes sometimes, and we are talking literally the next night? A week later, definitely not. That said, I would not take "possibly pursue". It is all or nothing.
Ilovecake Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 I would put some serious thought into whether I feel I can share my life with a person who is capable of dismissing me on a whim like an old pair of socks and then come back and act as if that’s an acceptable way to treat a person. Most likely I would lose all respect for them and would not take them back. Obviously they thought they had something lined up that ended up not panning out.
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