raynahhh. Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 So I've been dating a guy (it's long distance relationship) for over a year now. He's always talking about how I'm the only one for him and stuff like that but he has SO many girl best friends. SO many. He's always talking to them and hanging out with them and he always talks to me about how much he cares for them and loves them and how he'd protect them no matter what and do anything for them and he tells them that he's always there for them. Some of them are really messed up and do need help, but sometimes (a lot of the time) it feels like he cares about them more than he cares about me. I know feeling like this is selfish, but what should I do?
cleverpartner Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Did you know about this situation before you dated him? This can be an innocent situation or he can be in his "fun" stage of development. You need to make a decision for yourself and choose whether you want to deal with this situation or not. If a guy has many female friends, you can almost never find out if he's sleeping with any of them or all of them, especially if you have a long distance relationship. I say if you feel insecure, its always best to take the cut and move on instead of waiting until its a gaping wound.
OceanTropic Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I don't think you need to worry, after all he has been completely honest to you about it, and that means he has nothing to hide. I'm like that with my guy friends. I love all of them and care for them, but it's not in the slightest way romantic. My boyfriends become a bit insecure at times but they don't need to be.
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