lso802 Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 It seems that most of the time when I think someone is attractive, they approach me all on their own and like me. I don't stare, but I just see someone, think they're attractive, and I'm on my way. This has happened to me more than twice this summer. I saw a girl on the bus, thought she was cute, and she happens to be in my morning class. I didn't notice her before, because I sit in the back, and she sits all the way up front. One day I noticed her staring at me and so I just went up to her and asked her about an upcoming quiz. After that, every where I turn, she's there. Another girl I noticed sitting directly in front of me. How can I not look? I thought she was attractive. Next thing she's sitting right next to me. She even tried to start conversations with me. This doesn't just happen in school. It happens outside of school too like the first girl I mentioned. I didn't even know we were going to the same school. So I'm wondering is there some kind of sense that people have about people thinking they're attractive? What do you guys think? I'm not overly good looking or anything. So I know it's not looks. I'm not complaining. Just curious.
UBFeelinMe Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 I don't see what the problem is or why you even bothered to post this. That 5 minutes you just spent writing that post could have been put to better use, as in talking to these girls, don't you think?
Author lso802 Posted August 14, 2010 Author Posted August 14, 2010 It's a genuine curiosity. I want to know why it happens. I'm not really interested in hitting on girls ATM, but I look.
EYECANDY000 Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 It seems that most of the time when I think someone is attractive, they approach me all on their own and like me. I don't stare, but I just see someone, think they're attractive, and I'm on my way. This has happened to me more than twice this summer. I saw a girl on the bus, thought she was cute, and she happens to be in my morning class. I didn't notice her before, because I sit in the back, and she sits all the way up front. One day I noticed her staring at me and so I just went up to her and asked her about an upcoming quiz. After that, every where I turn, she's there. Another girl I noticed sitting directly in front of me. How can I not look? I thought she was attractive. Next thing she's sitting right next to me. She even tried to start conversations with me. This doesn't just happen in school. It happens outside of school too like the first girl I mentioned. I didn't even know we were going to the same school. So I'm wondering is there some kind of sense that people have about people thinking they're attractive? What do you guys think? I'm not overly good looking or anything. So I know it's not looks. I'm not complaining. Just curious. what excatly are you asking?
Author lso802 Posted August 14, 2010 Author Posted August 14, 2010 Why do most girls I find attractive try to get closer to me, although I've never done anything to illicit the attention other than having a passing thought of "hm. she's cute"? I know it's not looks.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 Why do most girls I find attractive try to get closer to me, although I've never done anything to illicit the attention other than having a passing thought of "hm. she's cute"? I know it's not looks. This question is confusing. Don't you try to get closer to women you are attracted to?
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