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skydiveaddict Established Member

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The sexual and mental chemistry have to be there as well. Sure we have things in common but that would have gotten no where if I didn't see her in a sexual way and if her character didn't stimulate me mentally.

 

 

 

 

 

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But all those things are in place. You are one of the lucky few, as I said before

CLC2008 Established Member

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I think in terms of black and white with regard to this thread.

 

There's Team A = Woggle camp.

 

And then, there's Team B = Pyro camp.

Pyro Established Member

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But all those things are in place. You are one of the lucky few, as I said before

 

maybe or maybe not. Plenty of married couples out there but as far as being truly happy we may never know.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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Huh? :eek::laugh:

 

 

It's an army term no worries I was just kidding

Pyro Established Member

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I think in terms of black and white with regard to this thread.

 

There's Team A = Woggle camp.

 

And then, there's Team B = Pyro camp.

 

:confused::laugh:

 

I just preach for people to be themselves and treat others how they want to be treated. Some will be for it and others will not. Impossible for every girl you come across to be interested in you.

 

Its not rocket science friends.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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maybe or maybe not. Plenty of married couples out there but as far as being truly happy we may never know.

 

 

First thing we've agreed on tonite. But I'm sure you and her will be just fine.

Pyro Established Member

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First thing we've agreed on tonite. But I'm sure you and her will be just fine.

 

there is hope.:laugh:

CLC2008 Established Member

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:confused::laugh:

 

I just preach for people to be themselves and treat others how they want to be treated. Some will be for it and others will not. Impossible for every girl you come across to be interested in you.

 

Its not rocket science friends.

 

Team B has my vote.

 

But you're right, and in your case, she is moving her entire life to be with you. There's something to be said for that...;):)

skydiveaddict Established Member

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Team B has my vote.

 

But you're right, and in your case, she is moving her entire life to be with you. There's something to be said for that...;):)

 

 

I agree...............

Thierro Established Member

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There are fundamental rules to get a relationship to its most vibrant point . If you don’t obey these rules, (sub)consciously attraction fades very fast or it won’t even exist to begin with. You WILL lose him/her.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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There are fundamental rules to get a relationship to its most vibrant point . If you don’t obey these rules, (sub)consciously attraction fades very fast or it won’t even exist to begin with. You WILL lose him/her.

 

 

What are the rules?

Pyro Established Member

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Team B has my vote.

 

But you're right, and in your case, she is moving her entire life to be with you. There's something to be said for that...;):)

 

you said it. I didn't do anything extraordinary here.

Gattica Established Member

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I have only stuck it out with nice guys. I have never been in a long term relationship with a guy that was a jerk. There are those cocky men that I have been attracted to and dated...but it didn't last long before the b/s got old and the attraction (mainly physical) that was once there quickly fades.

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How and why does this work? Seems like when I'm nice to any woman I want to sleep with she loses interest. But the ones I ignore and treat ****ty want me.

 

What's the proper way to use this on women?

 

Well first ask yourself why you treat some women like Sht? Is it because these are women who you don't care about what happens? Are you more confident to be yourself and just generaly not have attachment to the outcome. Well if so thats why you do better.

 

A man who is respectful to himself and by way of being respectful to himself others will do just fine with women. If you are confident enought to just be who you are and TRY with out caring about what happens then you will be very attractive to women.

 

If in your mind being nice means being some FAKE version of yourself who pertends to be JUST a FRIEND because he is so SCARED of rejection. Well of course that guy will do worse with women.

 

Plus in your scenario the girls you treat like crap are probably uglier/easier girls then the more attractive girls you try to treat "nice" according to you. What ever nice means.

Thierro Established Member

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What are the rules?

 

1. Know that you are going to die.

2. Love yourself unconditionally. Accept yourself. Having a healthy self-worth = key.

3. You are God, you create your world, you decide how anybody or anything outside yourself will affect you.

4. Every other living being is just a guest at your party called ‘life’. You only invite people to your VIP room because YOU enjoy their company.

5. Never let other people define who you are.

6. Live the now. The past has not created who you are now; this is a complete and utter lie. You are who you believe you are. Who you are is the NOW.

7. Never ever let negative thoughts surmount your state of being.

8. Just be who you TRULY are. This does NOT mean living an identity with any false believes that have brainwashed you.

 

Live life the way you want to live it. Be proud of who you are and what you do. Don't care what other people tell you. You are responsible for your own happiness.

 

I believe that your main problem is the whole self-fulfilling prophecy. Snap out of it.

 

 

Pyro; I wish you guys all the best. It must be very exciting. Experience the time together like there is no tomorrow.

Pyro Established Member

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1. Know that you are going to die.

2. Love yourself unconditionally. Accept yourself. Having a healthy self-worth = key.

3. You are God, you create your world, you decide how anybody or anything outside yourself will affect you.

4. Every other living being is just a guest at your party called ‘life’. You only invite people to your VIP room because YOU enjoy their company.

5. Never let other people define who you are.

6. Live the now. The past has not created who you are now; this is a complete and utter lie. You are who you believe you are. Who you are is the NOW.

7. Never ever let negative thoughts surmount your state of being.

8. Just be who you TRULY are. This does NOT mean living an identity with any false believes that have brainwashed you.

 

Live life the way you want to live it. Be proud of who you are and what you do. Don't care what other people tell you. You are responsible for your own happiness.

 

I believe that your main problem is the whole self-fulfilling prophecy. Snap out of it.

 

 

Pyro; I wish you guys all the best. It must be very exciting. Experience the time together like there is no tomorrow.

 

Haven't seen you around here before but that is brilliant. Well said.

 

Thank you. Once we are finally together for good we can start that.:laugh:

skydiveaddict Established Member

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1. Know that you are going to die.

2. Love yourself unconditionally. Accept yourself. Having a healthy self-worth = key.

3. You are God, you create your world, you decide how anybody or anything outside yourself will affect you.

4. Every other living being is just a guest at your party called ‘life’. You only invite people to your VIP room because YOU enjoy their company.

5. Never let other people define who you are.

6. Live the now. The past has not created who you are now; this is a complete and utter lie. You are who you believe you are. Who you are is the NOW.

7. Never ever let negative thoughts surmount your state of being.

8. Just be who you TRULY are. This does NOT mean living an identity with any false believes that have brainwashed you.

 

Live life the way you want to live it. Be proud of who you are and what you do. Don't care what other people tell you. You are responsible for your own happiness.

 

I believe that your main problem is the whole self-fulfilling prophecy. Snap out of it.

 

 

Pyro; I wish you guys all the best. It must be very exciting. Experience the time together like there is no tomorrow.

Very nice post I agree with everything except #3. I'm not smart enough to be God. Besides I dont think my parish priest would want me to say that

Thierro Established Member

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Very nice post I agree with everything except #3. I'm not smart enough to be God. Besides I dont think my parish priest would want me to say that

 

But you are capable of creating your own life. You can be and get whatever you want. The only thing that is holding people back is their own mind.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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But you are capable of creating your own life. You can be and get whatever you want. The only thing that is holding people back is their own mind.

 

 

I don't know about that. A lot of things seem to be holding me back

skydiveaddict Established Member

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How and why does this work? Seems like when I'm nice to any woman I want to sleep with she loses interest. But the ones I ignore and treat ****ty want me.

 

What's the proper way to use this on women?

 

 

hey Tim, I feel like I hijacked your thread. that was not my intention. but if you read through the posts I'm sure you can arrive at a few conclusions about your course of action. good luck to you

Thierro Established Member

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I don't know about that. A lot of things seem to be holding me back

 

Share them with us.

Green Established Member

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But you are capable of creating your own life. You can be and get whatever you want. The only thing that is holding people back is their own mind.

 

Tell me something I don't know. Ever watch Muppet Babies those guys could create anything with their mind.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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Share them with us.

 

 

Aw nothing out of the ordinary, my gf broke with me, I have ptsd (so says the army) and they're sending me back to Afghanistan, which I don't mind so much, 'cause I don't want to leave my squad, still war sucks.And no skydiving, that's the worst lol!

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dispatch3d Established Member

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One of the reasons that the relationship between CE and Pyro work so well is that because they both have a good healthy self-worth as an individual. This creates attraction.

 

lol.

 

no this doesn't create attraction.

 

hahaha

dispatch3d Established Member

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and being a complete ******* is more likely to work than being a huge nice guy. That's only because being a huge nice guy has basically a 0% chance of working.

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