shadowplay Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Stupidly, my ex and I have been in touch over im. It started when I found out he had an OKCupid account and he found out I had one. We were talking about people we were messaging (stupid, stupid). Anyway, there's this girl he messaged who I know a bit about. I recognized her because about a month ago at a cafe I happened to be sitting next to her and her friend, and overheard their loud conversation. She was basically talking about stalking her ex, and she sounded pretty nuts. Then one of the guys I met on the site told me a horror story about a girl he met on there, who went crazy on him and his friends, and it turned out to be her. I mentioned this to my ex and then he said that his roommate had gone on a date with her and also had the impression she was cracked and called her a "debbie downer." But despite all this, he's still going on a date with her. I know it shouldn't bother me, but it really hurts. It's like he's OK with the fact that she's probably crazy, but he was so picky about me being imperfect. I asked him what he likes about her and he said that she's pretty, likes to hike and he thought one of her outfits was cute. I wish I didn't care, but I even teared up a little after our conversation.
skydiveaddict Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Shadow, I really think you should stop contacting your ex. It will only bring misery
northstar1 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 You know, I stopped putting my hand on a hot burner when I was 5 because I learned it burned like hell. Come on Shadow, you need to stop talking to your ex. It's the proverbial burner.
ashanti22 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Question: Do you live in a small community or something? This chick's all over the place. Anyway, I agree. You should just stop talking to him. If it hurts to see he's moved on, maybe you need to move on too before you can attempt a friendship with him.
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