so_mo34 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 so i am on bad terms with my friend with benefits. well i think more **** buddies then anything, it's been a year. we got drunk together and he always hits on my friend so i said a couple jealous comments. i think he may know i like him more than that but maybe not remember. he started yelling at me a couple times over stupid things though and i cried. we slept over at his place cause we were drunk but i left first thing in the morning really fast. i spilled everything out to his friend as well and he was really comforting but i think he might have told him. but when i asked him the next morning he said he didn't remember what i said. we work together and i don't want to be on bad terms with him. he doesn't always treat me that nice and doesn't have feelings for me. i think he might be pissed at me and doesn't want to see me again. i don't want it to be over even though it should be but i miss him. should i text him and ask if he is pissed? or what should i do?
xpaperxcutx Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I can't believe you put up with his behaviour. I would never tolerate being treated like that. You can be hospitable at work but otherwise, you should have nothing more to do with him. Men like him are the worst, they have no respect for women and if you even have any kind of dignity and self respect you would walk away from all of this.
Author so_mo34 Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 I can't believe you put up with his behaviour. I would never tolerate being treated like that. You can be hospitable at work but otherwise, you should have nothing more to do with him. Men like him are the worst, they have no respect for women and if you even have any kind of dignity and self respect you would walk away from all of this. yeah he said i have no common sense and all this stuff. he did tell me though that he wants to start a family because he is 35 and is worried because he doesn't like anyone. that crushed me. im 22. when i was crying i wanted to go outside on the patio and he told me "don't jump" cause its really high. i know that i can't see him anymore but i am still hurt and miss him.
Sophia8 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 You can be hospitable at work but otherwise, you should have nothing more to do with him. Men like him are the worst, they have no respect for women I completely agree with this. It does hurt but I think that being with him will only hurt you more in the long run. Even though it does not seem like it at the moment, the hurt does disappear eventually you just have to be strong.
Gattica Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I agree with the above posters. It is going to be tough because you work together, but just focus on the good you are doing yourself by putting yourself first.
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Well, you're young, so it's understandable why you're confused. Odd that you miss someone who really doesn't treat you well, but that's sorta common. Don't text him. You don't need him.
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