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So, I met girl X a little over a month ago. She really seems to like me and is very nice. We got very physical early on and have great chemistry there. Date 4, she says she wants to have sex, but she wants to be sexually exclusive. I agree and we both agree that we don't want an exclusive relationship until we get to know each other better. After date 4, she invited me out everyday the next week. I accepted about half the time and she called/texted on the days we didn't see each other. After that, I have started to develop real feelings for her and started to initiate talking to her the last couple of days. However, she has been acting a bit less interested since I started initiating. Add to that, I overheard her roommate saying she had a first date with some other guy saturday when I was on the phone. We will be going on date 10 this week.

 

Enter girl Y, I went on a couple of dates with her 7 months ago and asked her for coffee again prior to meeting X. She just texted me back and wanted to get together. I agreed to coffee, but X is leaving for two weeks vacation the second half of august. I don't really feel comfortable carrying on with multiple women this far into dating, but I also don't want to push her. I don't want to lead girl Y on either. However, at least one (likely both) are also dating others and I know I will get too attached if I choose to see one.

 

Do I just see both or choose one?

 

If I choose both, what happens when I am 1-2 months onto dating both? It seems like this is going to get messy.

 

What happens if Y wants to have sex?

 

Also, after the situation with the ex-gf I am wondering if this one really wants a relationship or is it another one that masks FWB as a relationship?

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Also, should I talk to girl X about exclusivity again and let her know that it is starting to be a bit awkward for me to be seeing other people at this time and given her upcoming vacation, I would like to see where she stands? Or should I just go with the flow and date as much as possible until she brings it up? She has gotten a bit defensive about this topic the last time we spoke abut it.

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