ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 How can I tell if a guy is actually attracted to me or if it was just the alcohol. I met a guy that I'm very attracted to last weekend, at a bday party at a club. He's a friend of a friend. Early in the night before he started drinking, he was paying me attention, and than as the night went on it was more and more. I was drinking too, but I think he def had more to drink than me. I ended up making out with him in my car at the end of the night. I'm going to see him thursday night when I go out with the same group of people again. I don't think he's serious dating material but I could have some "fun" with him. But how do I know if he is genuinely attracted to me or if it was the alcohol?
Katie29 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 How can I tell if a guy is actually attracted to me or if it was just the alcohol. I met a guy that I'm very attracted to last weekend, at a bday party at a club. He's a friend of a friend. Early in the night before he started drinking, he was paying me attention, and than as the night went on it was more and more. I was drinking too, but I think he def had more to drink than me. I ended up making out with him in my car at the end of the night. I'm going to see him thursday night when I go out with the same group of people again. I don't think he's serious dating material but I could have some "fun" with him. But how do I know if he is genuinely attracted to me or if it was the alcohol? I would wait to see how it goes when you see him on Thursday. If he approaches you and is attentive, than that should give you some more info, esp if he's flirtatious. If he seems cold or distant than maybe it was just because he was drinking. Be nice, say hi but don't be all up on him. Act like you don't care either way.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 I would wait to see how it goes when you see him on Thursday. If he approaches you and is attentive, than that should give you some more info, esp if he's flirtatious. If he seems cold or distant than maybe it was just because he was drinking. Be nice, say hi but don't be all up on him. Act like you don't care either way. Being around him I feel like I have no self control, lol.. It's not going to be easy. I wouldn't have an issue with getting physical with him. lol
Katie29 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Being around him I feel like I have no self control, lol.. It's not going to be easy. I wouldn't have an issue with getting physical with him. lol I'm sure if you expressed interest in having a "romp" with him, he wouldn't oppose. Not many guys would.
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 It's best to wait a few days & see what he says when he sobers up. When I see him on Thursday I think he will be sober at least at the beginning of the night...lol
Katie29 Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 When I see him on Thursday I think he will be sober at least at the beginning of the night...lol Like I said, don't ignore him, say hi, even if he doesn't say it to you first. If he isn't interested, you ignoring him will look like it bothers you..
Author ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Like I said, don't ignore him, say hi, even if he doesn't say it to you first. If he isn't interested, you ignoring him will look like it bothers you.. As a woman I wouldn't kiss I guy I didn't think was attractive on some level, even intoxicated..
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