heartoutside Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 So my friend apparently has been trying to set me up with one of her friends (I only know this because her husband told me this girl digs me) but the friend took upon herself to ask me out for a beer. Really casual. I picked the place and it turned out be a great night. We had a good time, really clicked and enjoy each other's company. Now, I have a general rule of not kissing on the first date, esp when it's something as casual as getting a beer. So as we were leaving, we get outside and I give her a big hug and say I hope to see you again...soon. And she says, yeah, give me call! Now I'm starting to think it was mistake to at least not give her a ride home and kiss her goodnight. She digs me (at least she did before our beer night).... Did I f things up by not kiss'n her goodnight?
jackfergusion Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 I think you have not done any mistake. Yes, girl may expect good night kiss but it is not necessary that you should give if you don't like in your first date.As you said that she digs you after your beer night than leave thinking about her, you will get better one.
Blade Runner Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 It's a first date. You got nothin' to worry about. If she really likes you, she might have gone home and said "I wish I kissed him" or "I wish he kissed me", but it'll just make that second date kiss even better. Organize another date, maybe kiss her then. See what happens. You didn't f anything up!
Sabali Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 Try to resist the overwhelming temptation to over-analyze your every move and decision you make on a date. You went with your gut and did what you felt was right. You probably subconsciously reflected on the mood of the date and your gut instincts told you to hold back and this is not bad because it was your first date. It is appropriate to not kiss on the first date and in some cases it is appropriate so don't beat yourself up over it. I hope your next date is even better.
FL Lady Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 Try to resist the overwhelming temptation to over-analyze your every move and decision you make on a date. You went with your gut and did what you felt was right. You probably subconsciously reflected on the mood of the date and your gut instincts told you to hold back and this is not bad because it was your first date. It is appropriate to not kiss on the first date and in some cases it is appropriate so don't beat yourself up over it. I hope your next date is even better. I agree with Sabali. My other thought is that you should not wait too long to circle back with her to set up the next date. Show her your really interested.
Author heartoutside Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 I'll def be circle'n around quickly. I'll probably give her a call tomorrow. I suppose I didn't f anything up. I do feel a little bit like a jerk for not giving her a ride home (she took a cab). But I was actually so tired from lack of sleep that I was just kind of out it and it didn't even register until I got in my car. The only thing I'm thinking is that she probably thinks my saying we should do this again,...SOON! was me just being nice and I won't call her. But I guess that's a good thing....Cuz I'm going to call her.
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