DM85 Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 I'm completely retarded when it comes to women. By that i mean i am completely oblivious to it when a girl is flirting with me or likes me, so any signs a woman I'm going out with is giving me go right over my head. So, I've been on a few dates with this girl and i really like her. How can i tell if she likes me the same way? If she does, when would be a good time to ask her to be my girlfriend? Thanks
jadedone Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 I'm completely retarded when it comes to women. By that i mean i am completely oblivious to it when a girl is flirting with me or likes me, so any signs a woman I'm going out with is giving me go right over my head. So, I've been on a few dates with this girl and i really like her. How can i tell if she likes me the same way? If she does, when would be a good time to ask her to be my girlfriend? Thanks A few dates? more than one indicates she isn't repulsed by your presence. Have you kissed or made out with this girl. When she starts to act a little clingy then you can probably ask to make it official.
meerkat stew Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 If she touches you lots and is enthusiastic when you kiss her, she likes you. Don't ask women to "be your GF," wait til they bring it up. After all, you called them and asked them on dates, they should stick their neck out a bit too.
Author DM85 Posted August 8, 2010 Author Posted August 8, 2010 A few dates? more than one indicates she isn't repulsed by your presence. Have you kissed or made out with this girl. When she starts to act a little clingy then you can probably ask to make it official. LOL. I know shes not repulsed by me, I'm not that bad. And no, haven't kissed her. That would be another problem I have, knowing when to go in for the kiss. But that goes back to not getting the hints girls put out there.
meerkat stew Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Better get to kissin, it's the best indicator going of whether you are wasting your time or not. General rule, if she won't kiss you, don't date her. This rule can be waived for the first two dates at your discretion, but two dates -max-.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Look her deeply in the eyes. Touch her arm. If she's receptive of it, then she's probably desperate for you to kiss her already. If she looks down or something, she's shy probably, but excited by the idea. If she looks for an exit over your shoulder or pulls away, then she's desperate to get away and doesn't want you to kiss her. Take slow steps when trying to do these things. Like hinting at the idea of you two being boyfriend and girlfriend officially and seeing how she reacts to it. You can test the waters before you dive in and gauge her reactions that way. If she looks at your lips when you are near her, she's thinking about kissing you and what it would be like. Just like if you were looking at a girl's tits or ass, you'd be thinking about doing things to those body parts as well. XD Although there's no guarantee of how she's going to act, until you just do it, even if she acts weird when you check for these things. Some girls are really shy and bad at sending out signals, but a good time to try to kiss her in general is when you're alone. And there's no way to really know when a girl's ready to be official with you, although it's probably better to kiss her first before you bring the subject up. Hope that helps.
zengirl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 After a few dates, you really need to kiss the girl at some point in the near future. I don't believe everyone HAS to kiss the girl on the first date in the effusive manner in which some male posters will jabber about it, but, really, a series of dates with no romantic physicality is generally. . . odd. If a girl likes you, she'll keep seeing you, kiss you, be interested in the stuff you're saying, be affectionate, etc. That won't necessarily mean she wants a relationship with you, but it's a good start. As far as relationships go. . . I don't know, I think the only way is to communicate what you want and see how others react. Most women are not going to bring up commitment until a fellow does. Too many still figure all men are terrified of it. Honestly, I'm pretty assertive in a lot of ways, and I know loads of men who aren't afraid of commitment, but I've always waited for a fellow to ask me to be in a relationship and would never dream of bringing it up, really.
Author DM85 Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 well, took her out tonight and got the kiss when i dropped her off and walked her to her door. didn't plan on it, kinda just happened. she didn't pull away or try to avoid it, so i'm guessing that's a good sign.
sugarmomma Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 Sounds like you're in like flynn!! Hope she turns out worth knowing.
Author DM85 Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 I'm not sure who flynn is, but I'm going to assume that's a good thing. So far i ithink she's worth knowing, we'll see how it goes
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