grecian Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 So this guy I like and I know for several years was giving me some signs that I was pretty sure were positive and gave me the impression that he is interested too. But now he tells me that he started dating some other girl... WTH?! He just split up with his girlfriend a few months ago; Maybe he wants her as a rebound, i really dont get it. I am usually very straight forward but do you think it's a good idea for me to tell him my thoughts and feeling? Would it screw up our friendship forever??
TouchedByViolet Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 He is not interested in you for a serious relationship. That is certain. If he was he would have been all over you after the breakup. Sorry. You can tell him how you feel if you think that will help you get over him once he turns you down.
Author grecian Posted August 6, 2010 Author Posted August 6, 2010 oh and forgot to mention that he doesnt have a problem with me texting him and communicating with him; is that normal for a guy who is dating? wanting to have frequent chatting with a girl while dating someone else? it's mind boggling
nineyearsgone79 Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 I had the same thing happen to me kinda.. minus the "other girl." However, he would once in a while mention oh she's hot etc. I told him how i felt and we are still best friends. I think he just sees u as my best friend saw me .. as a friend. He likes to confide in you but probably doesn't see you in that way. I can honestly say after telling him i felt 1000000% better! I stopped having to question does he like me or analyzing every convo you have with them. If he can't be friends after u tell him then he's just immature and it's best to find that out now.
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