Bogo123 Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Because sometimes if you wait too long then it could possibly lose momentum. And I also hear that after a woman sleeps with a man, she starts to become more emotionally attached to him. If that's the case, then wouldn't it make sense to sleep with her asap to establish that connection?
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Because sometimes if you wait too long then it could possibly lose momentum. And I also hear that after a woman sleeps with a man, she starts to become more emotionally attached to him. If that's the case, then wouldn't it make sense to sleep with her asap to establish that connection? It depends on the woman. That said... I always err on the side of sleep with her.
MyNameIsJane Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 I know many guys think a girl isn't girlfriend material if she sleeps with a guy right away. However, I don't think girls think that a guy isn't boyfriend material if he sleeps with a girl right away. Its all about how he acts and what happens after. If a girl feels comfortable enough to be physical with you - holding out will usually get you nowhere because you'll probably make her confused and she'll wonder why you don't want to be with her like that. So I guess my answer is, sleep with her when she wants to sleep with you. If she wants to sleep with you and you hold out - you'll probably get nowhere. I don't think she will think of YOU any differently if you sleep with her right away. As long as you call her and don't just vanish. haha
AverageJoe Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Because sometimes if you wait too long then it could possibly lose momentum. And I also hear that after a woman sleeps with a man, she starts to become more emotionally attached to him. If that's the case, then wouldn't it make sense to sleep with her asap to establish that connection? I pee standing up. Do you?
Serenitynow Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 I also agree it depends on the person. Theres no "right" answer. The best relationship I ever had, we slept together the first night. I think she was expecting me to never call again, but I proved otherwise. .
skydiveaddict Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 It is always better to wait. It shows respect
Lovelybird Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 That sounds a bit of selfish to me. If you aren't sure that you can commit to her (at this stage I don't think you can), it is better to wait. Otherwise when she connects with you both body and soul, and then you bail on her, that would be very painful for her. I think it is a fine art that you let her know you are sexually attracted to her and want her, yet still can wait
USMCHokie Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 So I guess my answer is, sleep with her when she wants to sleep with you. If she wants to sleep with you and you hold out - you'll probably get nowhere. I don't think she will think of YOU any differently if you sleep with her right away. As long as you call her and don't just vanish. haha This. I will go until she stops me...then I don't go beyond that...the next time I see her I will try to go further until she stops me...repeat until we've gone all the way...
Gattica Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Hopefully you are communicating and it shouldn't be difficult to figure out. If you are considering sleeping with a woman, then it is safe to say you are able to talk about sex and ask what each others expectations are.
MyNameIsJonas Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 (edited) Just like everyone has said, it differs from woman to woman, but I've found that 3-5 serious dates and most women become comfortable enough with you to get physical. Again, "physical" means different things/actions to different women. That being said, If you like her in that way, then it really shouldn't matter. Edited August 5, 2010 by MyNameIsJonas chickens
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