How do u know when a guy's playing games?

[WildWildWest]

How can I tell when a guy is just playing games? I have been dealing with this guy for almost a year now... He has some issues when it comes to dating.. he lacks trust since he has been screwed over in the past... Recently I told him that I felt I needed to end it with him because I really like him and I feel that he doesnt like me as much as I like him... I am already semi attached and I dont wanna get hurt.. I also told him how I feel... Well when I told him the reason for wanting to end it he acted as if I didnt even say it... and then asked me if I wanted to have his baby... I figured he was joking but he told me several times that he wasnt.. I asked him why he wanted to have a baby with me when he doesnt even wanna date me... he said "u never know, things could change" But yet it seems like when we are supposed to spend time together he is to busy and ends up blowing me off.. I just dont get it.. He is playing games with me or is he just affraid to commit?

[xpaperxcutx]

You guys sound like FWB.

This guy is an inconsiderate jerk- wad for even suggesting a baby as a joke.

 

Why are you with him when you are well aware he does not want to date you?

[Enchanted Girl]

A guy who is into you will make time for you without you even having to ask.

 

If you think he's not that into you, then he's probably not and any other analyzations of the situation are just distracting you from that fact.

[fwang]

"A guy who is into you will make time for you without you even having to ask."

 

+1

 

You'd better leave him now.

[AverageJoe]

... and then asked me if I wanted to have his baby... I figured he was joking but he told me several times that he wasnt.. I asked him why he wanted to have a baby with me when he doesnt even wanna date me... he said "u never know"

 

Jumping Jesus on a pogo stick!! Who the hell would say something like that? Not someone with a semblance of mental stability. Is this not a red flag for you?

 

Run