LoveLace Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 About a month ago I ran into an old flame (very old, like several years) we were the only single people in our circle of friends and we just meshed right together. Hung out for the night and made out and fooled around. The next day we texted and flirted and told each other we are a great kisser, etc. After that I got distracted with alot of things like moving and dates, work, what have you, for a couple weeks, then I saw him at another gathering of our friends. We hung out together again. But I was distracted when someone showed up to the gathering that I haven't seen a really long time..someone that I needed to make amends with. I was very shocked to see that person. At the end of the night, guy tried to kiss me but I accidentally turned away...I didn't mean to, I was just so distracted by other things that it happened and totally looked like I dissed him. When I texted him the next day, he didn't reply. But I figured oh well, and more time went by. A concert was coming that I wanted to see so I texted and invited him to go. He said yes. But it was an outdoor event, when the day came a thunderstorm started coming in. I asked if we should still go and he said "probably not", and I agreed...I was also very tired and didn't feel like doing much, so I was ok with all that. Then last week I texted him because I had a 30th bday party that was all couples Saturday night. He was very apologetic that he couldn't go with me because he had a bachelor party. And I know it was true because I know other people that went to the same party. So last night I'm at my friends sports bar and learn he was at the same bachelor party as my friend's husband was. So I text him and we laughed it's a small world, haha. He said he felt like doing something so I said he could join me there. He said "awesome! I have softball at 7 will you still be there?"...I said yes I will. He says "call you when the game is over"...I said okay. He estimated the game would be done by 8:15. By 9ish pm I didn't hear a thing from him. So I asked him how is it going? I got nothing. Finally around 10pm I told him I have to leave because I do work in the morning...I said you could have just said you won't make it instead of dissing me like that. And i've heard nothing...not an excuse, not an apology, nothing. We have the same friends and we have a major history for fooling around...but back then we just fooled around and had no interest in calling each other. So did he just figure he could majorly dis me and not have to text me anymore?
Author LoveLace Posted August 2, 2010 Author Posted August 2, 2010 Well after I post this, he texts me that his phone went dead after softball game last night and very apologetic, etc. He said sorry that he couldn't be there and asked if I had fun. He knew where I was but he was going to need directions because I was in a back part of town where hardly anyone goes...so it's not as though he could have still shown up with a dead phone. We said that we will try again soon. Anyway I believe him because I dont have a reason not to, but I always feel like I"m being lied to and I do not handle these situations well. The second I feel betrayed before knowing the full story, I get very upset. Guess I gotta work on that.
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