kennedy1122 Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 I have been with my boyfriend for nine months now. He says he wants to live with me and i don't know what to do. I haven't seen him for a few weeks although we still talk everyday and he says he says he still loves me and everything, it just seems like everything we do is on HIS terms....i have met a really sweet guy durring that three weeks (but what guy isn't sweet in the begining) in that time...we got together for a couple of drinks and we kissed.(he also has a girlfriend) I haven't told my boyfriend we kissed...me and the guy i met have talked about a lot of things..ive never had feelings for someone this quick.we sort of talked about the future (in hypothetical terms). My boyfriend is a real ass****. When i go to his house he acts like im not even there. We haven't been alone (if you know what i mean) in about a month. He waits for me to make a mistake and starts a huge fight over it.i could just go on and on....this guy i met also has a girlfriend who is very obsessive..i've met some of his friends and they always talk bad about her. I have been thinking about leaving my boyfriend for a couple months now, and this makes me want to more...not to jump into another relationship but to see what else is out there. If my boyfriend and i moved in together this would be my first time doing it, and i don't want to regret it. Thats a huge step for me. PLEASE HELP ME. SORRY IF THIS POST IS BORRING BUT PLEASE HELP I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Soul Bear Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 (edited) wow....you have a partner already and you cheated on him by kissing someone else who you fancy... I don't care how you feel about how he treats you, because the very fact you cheated is bang out of order. Not only that, but the other guy ALSO has partner, and he cheated on her with you.... You both deserve each other. And as far as I am concerned you probably brought this behaviour of your current bf on yourself. This story sounds very one sided, all about you, and there are two sides to every story. Tell your bf what you did and hopefully he will have the sense to dump your sorry ass. You and the new guy sound like you deserve each other. Edited August 2, 2010 by Soul Bear
Author kennedy1122 Posted August 2, 2010 Author Posted August 2, 2010 that answer makes you sound stupid...i wish you knew my boyfriend..
Soul Bear Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 LMAO Incorrect, what you wrote makes you sound stupid. Leave him if he is treating you badly, but you have to remember that you CHEATED. Two wrongs don't make a right. You can't pretend that you are all holy and he is just an ass, because you also have done something bad to which you show no remorse for. So yes, leave the guy. There is someone better out there for you both
Author kennedy1122 Posted August 2, 2010 Author Posted August 2, 2010 well of course i feel bad!!!!!! or i wouldn't post this!!!
Soul Bear Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 Then yes, you should leave him. To be honest I hate these questions about ''should I leave xyxyx''....at the end of the day you should not be asking someone if you should leave your partner, you should be asking yourself. Clearly it does not sound like you love each other so the sooner you both move on the better. If he is treating you badly then maybe the same thing is running through his head. Why don't you talk to each other
Kamille Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 The answer to this one should be obvious: you feel your bf mistreats you and now you've started cheating on him. Yes, you should leave him. No, you definitely should not move in with him. I don't understand how there could even be a doubt in your mind about the correct course of action here.
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