Question on a new guy

[marmaliade]

Met online one guy, he is a friend of my friend, but I did not know him in person. So he arranged a trip and we met up (he is from other country). He is the sweetest, most intelligent guy I ever met. I liked him losts. during my visit we had a BLAST! I enjoyed myself a lot and we got really close. He even gave me presents when i left. Now though I have his mobile phone, i wrote him some messages, he didn;t write me back, so we communicate thrugh FB. Before the trip he used to write me every day or every second day, max in 3 days. Since I came back I get his messages every 4 or 5 days. Last time he didnt reply me for the whole week and i'm still waiting. I am a bit confussed. He says he has a lot of stuff going on, because he is moving to different city. How to check if he is interested in me in a nice way? We know each other for couple of months so I don;t want to appear pushy or needy.

P.S. all the time we were together there was a feeling that he is holding back a bit, but maybe because we were strangers and knew each other just for a little time. I asked if he has a wife or gf, but his answer was negative and I met all his friends, we had to go to his parents, but there were some circumstances that stopped us from going. Any advice is welcome

[Serenitynow]

I have no idea. It's all speculation for me to read his mind and tell you what he's thinking.

 

There could be key details that you saw him do or say that we do not know about since we were not there.

 

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[hopesndreams]

If he's not replying, he's not interested. No matter how busy someone is, it takes seconds to respond to a text.

[marmaliade]

Should I confront him or let him be and wait for his reaction? I already wrote him what's going on? you must be really busy

[Jilly Bean]

He's doing the fade out.

 

Let it go. Spare the personal humiliation by "confronting" him. He owes you nothing at this point, so I definitely wouldn't pursue the drama.

[zengirl]

Let 'em fade.