bananarama1 Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 ok i know the title might sound funny..it just my friend has been romantically involved with this young eligible bachelor, who is very stable in life and quite good looking too. he is a bit of a metro (drives a nice car and sometimes doesnt eat dinners so his tummy doesnt grow big etc). hes a very nice and generous guy to everyone, i mean everyone loves him. if u go on a dinner w/ this guy and ur just friends, he will pay for everyones meal. hes that nice and doesnt judge at all. anyways my friend and the guy were cybering and he mentioned something like he wants the feel of something in his butt (sorry if too graphic) and he fantasizes about getting another guy for a 3some to do him there so he would know what it feels like... then some repeated incident where he mentioned "isnt it weird that i feel turned on if a guy massage my head" (i mean his "real" head).. of course he has denied allegations of being gay or bi but my friend has asked him nicely (she isnt a judgemental person) and we've been brainstorming about this topic for the past few days.. i would like to know what you guys think. my guy friend told me that a guy who fantasizes about having somethng up in his rear is === gay. but i would like to prove my friend wrong. i want to have like an open mind to this, is thinking about these things just normal heterosexual thoughts or what? would appreciate your answers, thank u
xpaperxcutx Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I would've say he's bicurious but for him to even deny that fact just screams closeted homosexual. Suppose he does " indulge" in said fantasies, I doubt he would want to turn back time and say " no".
Mike B. Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Are you serious? I wouldn't even consider this a mystery. The guy is gay. A hetereosexual don't let men massage their "head" or fantasize about getting screwed by other men. Is the "friend" you?
Author bananarama1 Posted July 31, 2010 Author Posted July 31, 2010 no lol, i know someones gonna ask that. i wanted to make another profile for her but felt too lazy. my bf is like afraid of gay people or something, but it doesnt irk me so much as long as he doesnt say or do anything stupid. this other guy, is a friend of mine tho. we love him cause he is a listening ear and of course..the man feeds us
xpaperxcutx Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 no lol, i know someones gonna ask that. i wanted to make another profile for her but felt too lazy. my bf is like afraid of gay people or something, but it doesnt irk me so much as long as he doesnt say or do anything stupid. this other guy, is a friend of mine tho. we love him cause he is a listening ear and of course..the man feeds us Oh how charming and sweet. Definitely gay.
Sabali Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 my bf is like afraid of gay people or something, but it doesnt irk me so much as long as he doesnt say or do anything stupid. this other guy, is a friend of mine tho. we love him cause he is a listening ear and of course..the man feeds us The guy is as gay as a french horn. I don't see how there is a debate on this.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I think you guys are all putting your prejudices into this thread. If a girl said she was curious about being with other women and was in a relationship, would you all shout at her,"LESBIAN!" Or would you even consider the idea that she might be bisexual? Because it doesn't have to be either gay or straight. People CAN be attracted to both genders. I think the way you can tell if this guy is bisexual and not gay is if he acts this excited about his girlfriend's body, especially her vagina. If he seems mostly uninterested in her and her body, then he's probably gay because he's showing no interest in women, but a lot in men. Either way, he's in denial about, at least being bicurious. He might be in denial because our culture still hasn't accept bisexual and homosexual men in a lot of ways. I'm not saying lesbians don't face their discrimination as well, but it's not as extreme.
Mike B. Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I think you guys are all putting your prejudices into this thread. If a girl said she was curious about being with other women and was in a relationship, would you all shout at her,"LESBIAN!" Or would you even consider the idea that she might be bisexual? Because it doesn't have to be either gay or straight. People CAN be attracted to both genders. I think the way you can tell if this guy is bisexual and not gay is if he acts this excited about his girlfriend's body, especially her vagina. If he seems mostly uninterested in her and her body, then he's probably gay because he's showing no interest in women, but a lot in men. Either way, he's in denial about, at least being bicurious. He might be in denial because our culture still hasn't accept bisexual and homosexual men in a lot of ways. I'm not saying lesbians don't face their discrimination as well, but it's not as extreme. Gay. bisexual. He likes men. That's all we're saying. You are right about the whole lesbian thing but it really doesn't matter. I don't think it has much to do with this guy being attracted to men. Gay and bisexual seems to be interchangeable when it comes to heterosexual referring to their orientation. If you want to get specific, fine, he sounds bisexual but it generally just mean he likes men. She asked us what we thought and we told her what we thought.
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