NickelbackFan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Im so upset. I have been speaking to this woman from the internet for a few weeks and we had dinner reservations tonight. She stood me up. No return phone call, text, etc. I was stuck having dinner alone. I know that no emergencies or anything bad happened because she was posting away on her Facebook page around the time we were supposed to meat. This really sucks.
skydiveaddict Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Time to kick that one loose. don't lose any sleep over it
Author NickelbackFan Posted July 31, 2010 Author Posted July 31, 2010 I dont expect to talk to her but this came out of left field. No red flags indicators or anything else.
USMCHokie Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 This really sucks. No it doesn't. This is called dodging a bullet. Remove her from Facebook. Move on with your life. Also, why the hell are you Facebook friends...?!
paleblue Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 that is just plain rude. be glad you found out now she has no class. i would never talk to that broad again. and if she does contact you i would respond with two words... one starts with F, and the other Y... other than that i wouldnt loose any sleep over it either.
zengirl Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 That's pretty lame. But life will go on, as it does.
mortensorchid Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Everyone (myself included) seems to have bad news to report on Friday nights for some reason. Sorry this happened to you, but someone who treats another like that is not worth your time and energy. Unfriend if not block her from your Facebook page and don't bother with her anymore. Hope the dinner was at least worthwhile.
BobSacamento Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 This is why I like the first meeting to be way more casual.
carhill Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Just think OP, she saved you time, money and emotion. Gifts! This dynamic is why, in all the dates I've gone on while separated, I take the ladies to places I love to go to and where I know the owners (restaurants) so I'll still have a great time even if 'stood up'. Haven't been stood up yet, but looking forward to it
Author NickelbackFan Posted July 31, 2010 Author Posted July 31, 2010 We had a connection on the phone, planned this for over a week and then bamm she ditched me. I was so disappointed. I am not a robot I have feelings. Even the bartender asked me what was wrong and she bought me shots. Man this feeling is terrible.
carhill Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Yep, BTDT. The great lesson is to nourish and grow that 'connection' on *dates* rather than via electrons and other non-intimate forms. I finally got that memo in, what, my mid-30's?
brainygirl Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Man, that sucks. I hope you have better luck with the next one. I agree with the other posters, don't think about her again. She's got no class and isn't worth your time.
Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 WOW! What a horrible person she is. Seriously. Who does this? And after a week of chatting and what not? Just know that as badly as you are feeling right now, someday karma will come in and make her feel worse for this. Believe it. *hugs*
0hpenelope Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Im so upset. I have been speaking to this woman from the internet for a few weeks and we had dinner reservations tonight. She stood me up. No return phone call, text, etc. I was stuck having dinner alone. I know that no emergencies or anything bad happened because she was posting away on her Facebook page around the time we were supposed to meat. This really sucks. I don't have anything to contribute to this thread. I just wanted to let you know I'm sorry to hear that. Good luck with your search.
Serenitynow Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 WOW! What a horrible person she is. Seriously. Who does this? And after a week of chatting and what not? Who does this ?? 99.9% of the dating field does this crap. Nobody has the balls to be mature and respectful. I EXPECT people to be a-holes from the start, so when they prove me otherwise its refreshing. Dont ever trust/rely on people you dont know in the dating world.
Sabali Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Don't feel bad, OP. Don't take it personal. This is very likely a person who does this sort of crap to many people. I bet you she even stands her own friends up. It's not even worth your time trying to figure it out, really. Your best move would be to brush it off and say "oh, well, and I was going to hit that!"
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