mythologymajor Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Hi guys, I have distilled a really really long exploration into the mechanics (mysteries?) of the boy/girl relationship dynamic into a very concise question: Which is the truth when a girl issues conflicting statements, the first on her online status and the second, in person? To put the statement into context: on her MSN status she says she loves you. But she won’t even take your phone call. So the boy gets confused. If she says she loves him, he is supposed to do the right thing. Like call her to talk abt it. But she won’t take his calls and even asks him not to call her anymore. Which should the boy listen to? Which is the truth? Why does the girl do it this way? There are some constants: this is not a ‘just met last week’ scenario – it’s a complicated relationship on and off for more than 4 years. The girl apparently got really hurt by the boy becos he failed to take the relationship to a serious level. The boy finally realizes his mistake and tries to go all out to make it up, but she refuses to talk anymore. But her MSN status is all abt love and hearbreak. Both are mature working adults. There.. I’ve made it too complicated already… if u want the full story it’s on this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t238909/ Else, the big question here is, when it comes to the bottom line, which carries the true feelings of a girl: her words when talking to the boy she’s been hurt by but cares abt, or her online posts? Why is she saying 2 totally opposing things? Why do it this way??
Pfiend101 Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 My most recent ex said "Your the best, I'm lucky to have you" the day we broke up. Watch her actions not words. That goes for men as well.
Author mythologymajor Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 My most recent ex said "Your the best, I'm lucky to have you" the day we broke up. Watch her actions not words. That goes for men as well. Sorry to hear that, my friend, but that's slightly off from my question... the important elements clashing here are her words/action in person vs her words/action in her online status. But just out of curiosity (no, it's not schadenfreude...), did she say it while breaking up to make u feel better, or was like she said it in the morning and then very quickly and mysteriously changes her opinion that evening?
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