Orwellitsme Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 Strange story which is happening to me. I'm usually succesful with women, and know how to get them, from the beginnings to the bed. I've done it tons of times. And I thought I was doing well with that one again, but... Will try to make it as short as possible : the first time I met her, SHE initiated conversation, saying she had taken an appointment with me : as in french (which is our language, since that story takes place in France, and I'm french), we don't make any difference between a "date" and an "appointment" (at the dentist', at the lawyer's), I answered : so you and me already have a "date" ? Very nice. She laughed, I shook her hand and made it last while talking to her... PERFECT. 90 percent of the job was done I thought. Months passed because I was involved in a pleasant relationship, and not wanting to cheat on Mrs. n°1... BUT, everytime I met Mrs n°2, I went on playing a bit with her. I had signs of interests, and compliments from her, by the thousands (that I was handsome, that I smell good, that I'm cool and funny, that we should go out together, etcetera). And as I didn't make any move, for the reason I mentionned above, she become more and more flirtarious, talking about going out with me, smiling, even smiling and representing a smile at the same time, making a sign with her eyes... How could I resist. She's so pretty. I got her phone number, and asked her out and in one second she said she was sooo happy ! But on d-day, though she was here, she said she did not feel that good and wanted to postpone our date. She said "tomorow night" ? I said no I can't, but we talk over it later. Two other times, another flake. A fourth time (at the squash club), the same.... I cancelled her phone number and stopped calling her... And she come again, asking me out... But always the same outcome at the end... So now, yesterday night precisely, she texted me her "new phone number", and "kisses". Maybe I should have wait more, but today (my stupidness), I answered something funny, to make her understand that I would like to have another coffee date with her... And what ? no answer. What's going guys ? My answer is : give up ! Though I still feel she's attracted.... But tell me what you think guys. I'm very attracted...
oldfashiongirlie Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Sounds like she's not ready to start dating you, she's either confused,unsure, I mean there's got to be a reason behind it all. But It's up to you to decide to wait for her to come around and make up her mind already, or to go out with some other girls.
Author Orwellitsme Posted July 28, 2010 Author Posted July 28, 2010 Sounds like she's not ready to start dating you, she's either confused,unsure, I mean there's got to be a reason behind it all. But It's up to you to decide to wait for her to come around and make up her mind already, or to go out with some other girls. It's obvious you are right. It makes months that I have been thinking there is something behind that I don't know. Life will say if I find out what it is.
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