Toodamnpragmatic Posted July 29, 2010 Share Posted July 29, 2010 but this sounds like a very short term issue.... My spouse had children (duh, that's the way it happens) and I seem to remember 4 months or so each time not expecting anything or asking..... And no while I may have been sleep deprived, I was ready willing and able.... So what is the big deal???? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr. Lucky Posted July 29, 2010 Author Share Posted July 29, 2010 and I seem to remember 4 months or so each time not expecting anything or asking..... And no while I may have been sleep deprived, I was ready willing and able.... So what is the big deal???? No, it's not a huge deal and yes, the time will indeed pass. Here's part of my initial post: She is vocal about wanting me to approach her on a regular basis during her recovery even though I can't satisfy her on those occasions. My question was about responding to her offer. I've gotten great feedback here about the balance between being supportive and appreciative ... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
Toodamnpragmatic Posted July 29, 2010 Share Posted July 29, 2010 No, it's not a huge deal and yes, the time will indeed pass. Here's part of my initial post: My question was about responding to her offer. I've gotten great feedback here about the balance between being supportive and appreciative ... Mr. Lucky And you are a very lucky man..... I'd say no, and just wait 'til times are better.... Maybe a once in a blue moon type surprise, but otherwise I'd just empathize and wait for things to improve.... Link to post Share on other sites
tnttim Posted August 3, 2010 Share Posted August 3, 2010 This is a perfect chance to show her that you are the man. No pressure for sex, no selfishness by forcing her. Let her dictate what you can and cannot do. Let her initiate any sex. She will definitely gain mad respect for you, and you will gain more in the long run if you obstain from any sex. It builds up in women just like it builds up in men. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr. Lucky Posted August 3, 2010 Author Share Posted August 3, 2010 Thank you for the feedback. That's exactly what I've done so far. The time together has been good (and so has been the one occasion we've had sex) and her recovery is progressing well... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
JohnConnor12 Posted August 13, 2010 Share Posted August 13, 2010 when intercourse is acting an impediment why not try for the very next and world wide suitable recognized option that is foreplay...by foreplay both the partners can have satisfactory orgasm leaving no complaints behind..and when both are ready for intercourse you can continue with it..:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
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