plybybunny Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 Okay, so I met a guy on a dating site and he gave me his number. We texted a few times and then i invited him and his son to come over. We went over to his place and hung out till like 1 am and then I left so he could get some sleep for work. I am very shy so didnt make any moved but as i was leaving he kissed me and told me to text or call. The next day I told him i had an all night babysitter and asked if he wanted to go out or something. So we went to a bar and he had a friend of his meet us their. While they played pool I talked to some guys i knew there but he was still very affectionate between his turns. Then he gets a call from a friend in another town an hour away and he asks me to come along. We get there pick up his friend and go to a night club. The whole time he is very affectionate, kissing me in public and everything then we go back to his friends house and have sex in the spare room that night. the next morning we go pick up our kids and he comes back to my place and hang out. he sleeps all day tho. that was really weird. at night i tell him i am going to bed and he can come too if he wants. he says in a little bit, and stays on the floor with his son. he ends up coming to my bed at 830 am and cuddles for a bit and then i wake up alone. the next day he says he has some stuff to do so he goes home but says he will call or stop by later. about 6 hours later i text him and said he and his son left t shirts at my place. he texts back like a hour later and says "what cha doin??" and i write back gonna order pizza and rent a movie wanna come over? and then nothing at all back. i text him a few hours later "or not lol...ttyl" now it is the next day in the afternoon he is at work. should i text him again or call? or is he just not interested? i should also mention he is a gorgeous i mean gorgeous guy and i am chubby and not terribly attractive he is way out of my league. was i just a booty call? how long should i wait?? please help!
Author plybybunny Posted July 26, 2010 Author Posted July 26, 2010 oh and by the way after the first night, he text me and said "damn i suck at layin down the moves, but u cute as hell n after gettin 2 know ya...gorgeous. happy we met" so i took that as he was into me...but i dont know if i was a booty call or what
txsilkysmoothe Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 Just wait! Don't contact him for awhile at the very least. It's too soon to know if you were just a booty call. He did introduce you to his friends. If he had a problem with you being chubby or viewed you as a booty call, I doubt he would have done that. But he may still NOT want to go any further with you, that's the chance we take in dating. Contacting him too much could push him away. It hasn't been very long so just WAIT.
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