rough_diamonds Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 Ok, I've been dating this guy for about 5 months now. We only hang out once a week (twice if I'm lucky). Here's an example of our time together: - Last week I came to his house late mon night. - We hung Tuesday and then I took him to work Wed morn. -Skip to next Sun night first time seen him since Wednesday morn. - We only hung for a little cause he didn't ask me over til 12am. And then he left in the morn for work and I just keep sleeping and left a bit after. Last night I got upset and told him about it. We broke up couple weeks ago because of this issue and prior to us breaking up I had a big talk to him about how I wanted him to see me more than twice a week. We're obviously back together now, I love him too much. But his stubbornness and selfishness to even meet me half way really hurts. He knows I'm not happy with the current arrangement but does nothing. He said last night "we've been seeing a lot more of each other lately". That's not really true - there was one week where we were together 3 days because we went to the snow, but usually it's just once a week. I'm SICK of bringing the issue up; I sound like a broken record player. But I'm not sure what else to do, I'm not asking for every day of the week, I would be happy with 2 sleep overs and one hanging out day, but I struggle to even get that. What do you think I should do?
zengirl Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 There's no way to "get him" to change. This is obviously not a real connection for him. It sounds like most of those times you see each other are late at night. If you're not happy, you're the only one who can change that. . . You have to decide either to be happy with him as he is or get out. My 2 cents.
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