brokenheart1 Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 My boyfriend never has time for me and we're always arguing. When we are together we have lots of fun but lately we just haven't been talking. He seems to always have time for his friends but with me, he's busy. We try to spend time on the weekends but it seems so awkward. I think it's time to walk away. He doesn't tell me anything. I always have to find out last minute. For instance, he went to visit his family (which is fine), but he never told me. He just kept saying oh, i'm thinking about it, i'm thinking about it but never actually told me. He told me the day before he was leaving. He never told me he was coming home. On the day he got home he asked me if I could get him at the airport. I don't think that's normal.
Sabali Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 My boyfriend never has time for me and we're always arguing. When we are together we have lots of fun but lately we just haven't been talking. He seems to always have time for his friends but with me, he's busy. We try to spend time on the weekends but it seems so awkward. I think it's time to walk away. He doesn't tell me anything. I always have to find out last minute. For instance, he went to visit his family (which is fine), but he never told me. He just kept saying oh, i'm thinking about it, i'm thinking about it but never actually told me. He told me the day before he was leaving. He never told me he was coming home. On the day he got home he asked me if I could get him at the airport. I don't think that's normal. It's not normal. He doesn't sound like a terrible guy though. Relationships are not always cloud 9. There is some cloud 1 and 2 thrown in the mix occasionally. The best thing is to give each other some room. Since you argue a lot, I am not sure if talking will help much. Maybe if you just find time to do things without him and let him do his thing, you two can discuss it later once thing cool down. I always believe in knowing when to step back from a person. It is so important. Sometimes you just have to shut up and step back.
Kinder-Horror Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 How long have you two been together? How long has this break in communication been going on?
robdrm32 Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 It's not normal. He doesn't sound like a terrible guy though. Relationships are not always cloud 9. There is some cloud 1 and 2 thrown in the mix occasionally. The best thing is to give each other some room. Since you argue a lot, I am not sure if talking will help much. Maybe if you just find time to do things without him and let him do his thing, you two can discuss it later once thing cool down. I always believe in knowing when to step back from a person. It is so important. Sometimes you just have to shut up and step back. I somewhat agree with this. Stepping-back is a good option. At the same time, realize that it's obvious he isn't making you a priority in his life. Telling you things last minute, making time for friends but not you. The kicker to me is, "hey, i'm at the airport can you pick me up?" Like you should drop what you are doing, but he couldn't be bothered to tell you things beforehand. If he has always been like this i'd say he's inconsiderate. If it's a recent trend he might not be feeling it anymore. Either way i'd think about leaving the guy.
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