pixiegargen Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I met this new guy a little more than a month ago and we really hit it off. We went out on several dates and had a great time. We kept in frequent contact via text message, e-mail and phone. He had a vacation planned before we met which he went on. He was gone for a week, I didn't expect to hear from him while he was gone, but to my surprise, he sent text messages and e-mails while on vacation. It was very sweet. He is a nice guy and seems to sincerely like me. He got back from his vaca earlier this week and e-mailed to let me know. He said he couldn't wait to see me again and asked when I was available to go out. I replied with my availability and he never got back to me. It's totally unlike him, it's been 2 days now. Is he blowing me off? It seems odd and very unlike him that he'd go to all that trouble and then not reply to me.
Argentina Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 It is possible he didn't get your email. Why don't you just send casual text. "Hi. Had a few probs with my email lately. Just wondered if you got my reply the other day? Hope things are good with you" Alternatively, maybe he has just got caught up with work or something that has come up once he got back from his holiday. It's early days, so best not to push it too much. For you, 2 days may seem like an eternity to wait for a reply. But if he has been busy with work, unpacking, sorting out finance/mail etc he may simply not have had time to formulate his schedule for the next week or so.
zengirl Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 If he actually emailed you asking your availability, I doubt he's blowing you off (unless something major has happened -- like he was rebounding with you and an ex suddenly came back or something). Likely just busy. Or trying to sort out a time. Or the email got lost in his messy post-vacation in-box. I'd give him another day and then send a follow-up text or something.
Chinook Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 Or he was in touch with vaca-girl and she's more of an option and he's dropped you...?! Could be. Who knows...?! If it's out of character, I have to say that the likelihood of something major happening like a car accident, illness, etc is pretty unikely, so he hasn't replied because he doesn't want to. Red flag for me that.
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